This week, Sophia turned thirteen, which means that I now have two teenagers in my house. When I mentioned this to Sophia, she looked at me with a somewhat incredulous expression and replied, "Mom, you're going to have two teenagers in the house until William leaves on his mission - and that is in fourteen years!" So I guess the era of teenager-hood has arrived at the Sherwood house.
But to be fair, Sophia has - so far - shown no inclination to become like some of the horror stories that one hears about. She is very practically minded and doesn't like conflict, so that certainly helps to keep the drama to a minimum in the house. Occasionally we will have a difference of opinion about things, but she's very good about talking things through without getting dramatic. Once she told me that occasionally she will run scenarios in her head where she decides to defy the parental orders just to see what could possibly happen. "But," she commented with a shrug, "I always realize that that you have all the power and will win every time. So it's really not worth it."
So far, I'm enjoying the teenage years of my two girls, as we get to have fun conversations together discussing life, future plans, and things that are going on around us. They're both quite helpful and have helped widen the island of sanity in the middle of the whirlwind of life with seven children. My role as a mother with them has changed over the years and I'm much more advisory than I used to be, checking in on them from time to time and offering help with problems and situations, but letting them do the heavy lifting from day to day. It's probably a good thing that they're both so independent as I have my hands full with their five younger siblings.
To celebrate Sophia's birthday, we cancelled school for the day. Sophia is mostly done with her school for the year anyway, as their online classes were gracious enough to finish the week before her birthday. But everyone got school off, as birthdays in our house are holidays for the entire family.
She started the day crafting with Kathleen, then swam until lunch. After lunch, everyone enjoyed watching a movie and eating popcorn, something that never happens in the middle of the day on a weekday. For dinner in the evening, we had sushi, followed by Sophia's favorite raspberry-chocolate-meringue cake. And of course there were presents, because what's a birthday without presents?
Sophia really enjoys climbing and will climb any tree she can find, so on Saturday we went rock climbing at a local gym that a friend had recommended. All of the children enjoyed making it to the top of the wall, and Sophia was the fastest each time.
It seems like just a few years ago that I was a young mother of two and Sophia was a cute little baby with an infectious smile and adorable mohawk. But now she is almost as tall as me, weighs about fifteen pounds less than me, and is closer to being a mother with her own little baby than she is to being my little baby. But I guess that's what happens when one has children - they grow up without ever asking your permission.
We're all happy to have Sophia in our family. Happy Birthday, Sophia!
