‘Gag’ gifts, sometimes lost on the receiver, and other times, a big hit at birthday or retirement parties, necessitate premeditation. Like the art of comedy, some do well in achieving a desired effect while others fail horribly, and ‘tank’ with the audience.
Before you give the gift of gag, consider the following insights related to the when, where, and who.
The Victim
Of course, any person is a potential victim of a gag gift. Yet, like snowflakes, we’re all unique, some unequipped with a good sense of humor. Moreover, some people don’t mind a gag but draw the line when the joke is on them. Before you plan on someone becoming the eventual victim of a gag gift, be sure that person has the sensibility and penchant for humor to appreciate the gag rather than rue being the butt of the joke.
The Occasion
There is no gospel regarding when to give and when to abstain from providing gag gifts, but one must consider the occasion. As mentioned in the intro, a retirement party is a good occasion for a light-hearted gift. However, giving a gag gift in exchange for attending a grand, ornate wedding is a faux pas. Moreover, in addition to the recipient, one must consider onlookers. Grandma may be appalled when your girlfriend unwraps a present that is better given in private for example. Maybe you need two (an appropriate and less appropriate for the masses) gag gifts. Shop your online gifts store for ideas.
The Exception
Some are destined for greatness, and such heights necessitate confidence and a bit of risk. For example, the employee who does not blindly agree with but challenges an overbearing boss is presented with a raise and promotion for candor. Exceptions exist in life, and the gag gift is certainly that – an opportunity to get noticed. Playing the devil’s advocate, don’t dismiss a well-placed gag’s influence on others and how they perceive you, and separate you from the herd.
The Backup
A successful comedian always has a ‘backdoor plan.’ So, in case an edgy or risky joke goes over poorly, they can still get the audience back in the palm of their hands with an added turn of the screw or subsequent gag. Have some kind of backup plan (like a serious present) reserved. There’s no harm in trying, yet a poor performance is more likely forgiven if you have a reserved present in place.
The Legacy
Don’t miss your chance to catch the gag on film. Aside from your smart phone or mobile device, manufacturers offer covert cameras that capture moments you don’t want to forget. Check out this high definition pen cam for instance. Preserve the legacy of your gag and the levity of the occasion by capturing it on film.
The Consensus
Sometimes, it’s best to get the perspective of others before going forth with a gag gift. Ask a few friends or family members, who know the intended recipient, if they believe the ‘gag’ is appropriate. You’ll sacrifice the element of surprise yet grow better assured of the subsequent feelings and actions of the recipient.
Karina Davis loves to buy gifts for her huge family. A passionate writer, when she finds a new idea, she loves to sit down and share it with others online. Look for her entertaining posts on a number of websites and blogs today.
