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Emptiness in being complete..!
The leaf so complete in itself, Yet it has thrist for the rain..! And, so I'm for you..! Emptiness in being complete, Raanna
Sometimes, its like we need people not to give any solutions to our problems but just to listen. People have left your life and relations are broken and all those stuff.
But let me tell you, until you have your own support you can just never be alone, nor can you have that feeling of 'emptiness' within. Loving yourself greatly depends on what type of importance do you have in your own life . It may sound a little weird but all the water in the sea can't sink the ship, until the ship lets it in.
Similarly, start loving yourself to that extent that even if tomorrow all your friends and the whole world stands against you still you should fight for yourself and win! I know its difficult, I know its obvious that you may feel that why all this struggle only with you?? But believe me situations like this actually help you a lot in life.
I also have faced many problems like this and it has forced me to change, but in a good way.And I think that I am fortunate enough that life is giving me that chance of actual 'growing up' and not just growing up with height or weight. Also don't feel that you are going through this because you have some big disaster in front of you. There's nothing like that. People have problems but most of them after struggling for a while give up and settle for something less.
You should try an antidepressant and see a doctor and a psychologist. You can learn some valuable coping skills as the end of the semester must be racing up.
I have seen this situation a lot and it can work out quite fast for some people and more slowly for others. Life gives everyone hurdles, this all makes so much sense looking in from the outside. So please attend the doctors as soon as you can and then book psychiatrists and psychologist appointments.
Study is hard at the moment you should maybe resort to an trick used by the most successful students. Go to bed earlier and get up 1-2 hours earlier every day at the same time and do your study in the early hours
Loving yourself will give you a sense of happiness, confidence seeing which your parents will stop worrying about you and all other things will fall into place. Be your own guide, your own mentor and a best friend!!! This will give you a great degree of happiness and also you will feel 'complete'. I promise.
Also be there for other people. May be you are the only who is actually there! Help anyone you can,in any possible way and at any possible time. And whenever you feel that you don't have enough just pay a visit to an orphanage and see what the life there is like. It will help you a lot. Be positive about your life and only good will come you way!
People think they should be always up or something is wrong with them.But in truth we are human beings which include all our feelings, vulnerability and yes emptiness at times. The heart has many seasons besides the fullness of summer. There is the letting go of fall, the emptiness of winter, and the hope of new beginnings of spring. Important to honor all the seasons of your heart, all your feelings. Especially it is good to embrace the part of life that is empty! From here comes new understanding, compassion, and life itself!
So finally, make a big place for your own self in life, love yourself and you will lead a very happy and normal life..!! All the best!! 🙂
#Emptiness in being complete..!
