Okay ladies...where do I begin?
We have all heard the term "crazy baby mama" and we all say that we will never be that girl, right? Well, if you still love the father of your child and he has moved on chances are you might end up being that girl! Every "baby mama" will not fall into this category (thank God) but not being this way is easier said than done. Luckily, I am not faced with drama and I myself have moved on and could care less about what Zahara's biological dad does in his free time. I understand that some of you ladies are not there yet but I promise you that you will get there too! Save your time and energy and focus on your child! If the father of your child is taking care of his CHILD then what he does in his free time or who he does it with is really none of your business. You will never be happy or find love of your own if you don't truly find peace and move on.
So... save the crazy text messages, subliminal tweets and facebook statuses and turn that energy into something positive! I have been guilty of this, but I realized that nobody really cares! Nobody wants to read your bitter tweets and statuses besides other bitter women and those are not the type of people you want to be around anyway!
Oh, and please ladies...stop calling him at all hours of the night! Your child is sleep, there is nothing for you to discuss after 9pm!
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