Birthday party at the Kansas Masonic Home for Gladys Bever.
Today I had the good fortune of attending a birthday party for Gladys Bever. At 103 years old, she remains fairly active. She only just recently started using a walker. She's still very sharp. Her memory rivals that of people decades younger than she.
Gladys Bever, 103.
Gladys enjoys reading books, primarily devotional literature. She's one for whom the phrase "all that clean living" really applies while some other centenarians can hold onto some unhealthy habits. She focuses on the positive and shuns things that are contentious or frivolous.
I enjoy visiting with her each week. She tells me about many of her life adventures. We loan each other books.
She was born Gladys Oakley at home on July 30, 1910 in Yuba County near Marysville, California. Gladys married H. Cecil Bever, who worked for decades as a preacher.
Gladys has performed hundreds of hours of church service in various states in the US and went on some service trips abroad, too. She was an attentive mother as well.
All three of her children--Howard, George and Gail--trained in the ministry.
Howard Bever (pictured below in the white long-sleeve shirt) is a minister in Dighton, KS and is a veteran of the US Air Force. Gail Bever Gunning (pictured below in the long-sleeved striped shirt) is currently an attorney in Norman, OK. She taught middle school in Enid, OK for a time.
Gail Bever celebrating her birthday with family.
I had the chance to visit frequently with their sibling George while he was a resident at Kansas Masonic Home. George served as a minister in various states throughout his lifetime. He passed away on October 5, 2011.
It's exceptional to me to socialize with someone who is 103. However, my interest in active aging teaches me that the number of centenarians are on the rise.
According to a Centenarian Fact Sheet compiled by the United Health Group, "1 of every 26 baby boomers. . .will reach 100"; they cite the US Census Bureau for that projection.
US News & World Report also shares statistics from the US Census Bureau. In 1980 the census found 32,194 centenarians. By 2010, the number had increased 36.3% to 53,364. Almost 80% of centenarians are women. The overwhelming majority are Caucasian.
A press release by the US Census Bureau predicts a growing diversity by gender and race in the coming decades along with even more growth for those 100 plus. Whatever their demographic profile, most certainly centenarians will be a growing presence in the United States. We have the opportunity to hear them share personal narratives about historic events and share their insights about trends and patterns that span several decades. Hopefully, people are collecting stories and benefiting from their far-ranging perspective.
Someone who is very focused on the lives of centenarians is Lynn Adler, Founder of the National Centenarians Awareness Project. Visit the NCAP site for more information on how to recognize centenarians, read stories about their accomplishments, and how to advocate for older adults.
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Talking with Older Adults: Serving as a Witness
