Avoiding Your Kids Responding "You're Not Listening!"

Listening is one of those skills that really doesn't seem like it's all that difficult. Why then do so many children report that their parents don't listen to them?
Maybe it's because there are many ways to unintentionally stop conversations with your kids. These traps are so easy to fall into that you may not even realize something has gone wrong until your child walks away in a huff.
Saying Things That Stop Conversation
It’s easy to respond to your children in ways that shutdown the conversation. In his book People Skills, Robert Bolton identifies 12 conversation roadblocks.
Being judgmental:

• Criticizing: "That wasn’t a very smart thing to do."
• Name calling: "You are such a brat!"
• Diagnosing: "The reason you drag your feet on getting your chores done is that just you want to upset me."
• Praising Evaluatively: "You’re the best player in the school. The tryouts will be breeze for you."

Avoiding the child’s concerns:
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