No! It means you’re human and like everyone there are ways you can improve the way you react under stress.
None of us are all good or all bad. Each of us can point to interactions we handled very well with our children and ones where we “blew it”.
It’s important not to get stuck harshly judging yourself. Instead practice telling yourself things like
- “I am good enough.”
- “I am loveable.”
- “I am capable.”