Abbie Chatfield has come out swinging after being trolled for having an open relationship together with her boyfriend-of-three-months Konrad Bień-Stephen.
The Bachelor star, 26, introduced on her It is a Lot podcast this week that she Konrad, 31, have been formally non-exclusive, however stay dedicated to one another.
Nevertheless, her admission was met with backlash on social media, prompting Abbie to fireplace up at her critics in a foul-mouthed rant on Tuesday afternoon.
The influencer strenuously defended her non-traditional relationship, insisting there's nothing unsuitable with having a number of sexual companions.
'A few of you f**kers are so embarrassingly triggered since you're so insecure. You are like, "But if you love someone, you only want to f**k them!" Not me, and never [Konrad],' she stated in a video on Instagram Tales.
'If that is how you're feeling, it is so nice. Be monogamous! [But] why do you care if I f**okay another person or he f**ks another person?' she added.
Abbie additionally revealed that she and Konrad's relationship has been 'open the entire time'.
'Why are you all assuming that I am forcing him, after we stated a number of instances, 'We agree with this'. We have been speaking about this earlier than we even had intercourse. We have been speaking about it like after we hadn't even kissed but!' she stated.
'Like, babes. I am not forcing him to do something. In actual fact he is the one which's f**king another person and I am to, as a result of I am too busy. However like, it is nice. We additionally did not solely grow to be open at the moment.'
Abbie claimed that open relationships are extra widespread than folks realise, and that polyamorous folks usually cover within the shadows because of social 'stigma'.
'I can just about assure that in the event you dwell in a populated space and you've got a variety of pals from a variety of totally different walks of life, one among them might be in an open relationship,' she stated.
'However they don't seem to be telling you both as a result of they're ashamed due to the stigma, or since you particularly are so closed minded they know you'll give them s**t and query the worth of their relationship,' she added.
She proceeded to insist that Konrad is 'joyful' and that they love one another regardless of what others might consider.
'Simply since you need everybody to need monogamy as a lot as you do, doesn't suggest that somebody not wanting monogamy is a nasty factor,' she added.
'Why does it have an effect on you which of them genitals contact one another? Get a grip!'
Abbie made headlines on Tuesday after she revealed that she and Konrad have been in an open relationship.
Throughout her podcast, Abbie revealed that she hadn't but taken benefit of her newfound sexual freedom.
Nevertheless, Konrad did sleep with one other girl not too long ago, then got here residence and advised his girlfriend about it.
'Everybody, mummy and daddy aren't breaking apart. We're simply having a unique construction to our relationship,' she defined.
'We're open. We're in an open relationship, which we love,' she added.
Konrad, who joined his girlfriend on her podcast, stated he'd by no means been in an open relationship earlier than however was eager to be taught the ropes.
'Somebody we met on the weekend gave us some good suggestions, [which included] see a intercourse therapist, speak about your boundaries, it is not such as you go and sleep with anybody,' he stated.
'There are guidelines [but] you possibly can nonetheless cheat on one another,' Abbie added.
'I really feel like there's a lot extra to a relationship than simply intercourse,' Konrad replied.
Abbie stated she is not jealous by nature so does not have an issue with Konrad sleeping round, however could be upset if he lied about it or did not put on safety.
'I do not care about somebody's genitals going close to another person's genitals,' she defined. 'I care concerning the mendacity. I care about getting an STI.'
She went on to say that listening to about her boyfriend's sexual escapades, and telling him about her personal, is definitely one among her 'kinks'.
Konrad, who appeared in Brooke Blurton's season of The Bachelorette, then revealed that when he did sleep with another person, he referred to as Abbie the subsequent day and he or she advised him: 'Yeah sizzling, inform me all about it.'
The pair have been relationship for about three months, with Abbie confirming their romance again in November.
Abbie not too long ago addressed rumours the pair had cut up, confirming on Instagram she and Konrad have been nonetheless very a lot collectively.
'For everybody who is worried that I have not posted with Konrad for seven or eight days - don't be concerned, we have not damaged up, we're simply merely lengthy distance,' she stated.
'Do not panic. We're nonetheless collectively. Additionally we do not have to publish on daily basis collectively, it is nice. We're nonetheless collectively.'
She additionally hit again at critics who questioned her friendships with different males, defiantly responding: 'I am additionally allowed to have male pals.
'I'm queer, so if I wasn't allowed to have pals that have been the gender that I'm going to f**okay, I used to be have to take a seat in my room and simply take into consideration him all day on daily basis.
'So do not stress, he is approaching the radio present tonight. You may hear us discuss then. Good plug!'
