What is a soul mate?
A soul mate has the ability to connect with you in the present moment.. Then will also give you glimpses of it when you are falling back into your mind made reality. This connection will give you a hint that you are not alone for the familiar place inside you will feel the depth of the connection cause it touched the heart being within you, that yearned for the depth that the connection rang inside you.
You will share things about yourself with your soul mate that when shared will give you a place inside where the loneliness will subside notice I say subside. The responsibility of the soul mate will bring about very strong emotional energy that says they are like you and you are like them.. in that it will seem to almost elude you, yet may confuse you with them being your other half..
This is when it becomes a story rather than a message to something inside you that needed to be accepted inside you rather than the soul mate who you are stating gives you something that no one else will… A soul mate can open a door inside you.. You either will step through it to see the depth of the connection or stand in the door way and wait for the soul mate to pull you through..
This never happens for the understanding of the soul mate is that they will express the soul being inside you that needs to walk through a door of acceptance all to its own.. Some soul mates have a gravitational pull that will either awaken you or ring something inside you.. It can make you weak, make you strong, make you see reality or even take you deeper into a dream state of being..
Ultimately a soul mate will have unconditional love for you that will also show you conditions that they love about themselves.. You can ride or die together yet most soul mates tend to lose the present moment that brought them together because of ego survival characteristics that can keep them from seeing the connection and it’s purpose.. Soul mates are a valuable experience in this existence. They give us hope that a connection inside ourselves is possible outside ourselves.. The voice within still singular for moments will have duality.. This is a truth that becomes silent and we don’t see deeper to the reason why it left us.. or what changed it.. Never seeing the other energy that has noise based on other events that have happened to our own souls that the soul mate will not be able to know about. For those moments though… Truth in connection vibrated us.. It reached something inside that showed us our own spark plug that gives us existence.
What’s your view on relationships?
From an external view a relationship can be seen much like this.. If you pick up a glass of water.. You can do several things with this.. You can drink the water, you can pour the water out and put more water in it, you can even put wine, beer, or even poison in the glass.. The amount of energy used to drink or pour or even shatter the glass will take the same amount of energy based on the way you hold the glass..
If you drop the glass, some will throw it away, others will try and put the glass back together and drink out of it.. As leaks happen some will seek more or different kinds of glue to mend the glass to drink from it again..
The purpose of this is how the relationship gives you much like the glass that you can drink out of.. Some will have water and you can see through it, some will have different flavor of water, even the texture of the water may have contaminants in it.. Yet they will continue to drink from it.. The relationship is going to give you what you will dare yourself to drink..
Some will seek a mug or even a pitcher to drink from.. When was the last time you went to the fridge and opened up and drank from the container itself.. It says alot about how you will endure relationships and your place within them..
The most profound experience of the relationship is exactly how you experience drinking from a glass.. You either will fill the cup all the way to the top or just do sips at a time to savor the taste, either way what happens when it goes down inside you, you will excrete the remnants of what was in the glass..
All relationships leave you with something.. The connection to the glass not seeing the connection to yourself and your absorption of what was in it when you drank from it.. We pay attention to the thirst not the actual aliveness that the glass can have within it’s content that we drink from.
I am not sure if this spoke to you.. But realize that what you have from the glass is the relationship you have with yourself that you can give to someone else.. Shared.. Powerful if you accept what the message is here.. Can you think of how many other ways you will stare and interact with the glass? Do you see the relationship to the glass and yourself?
Beautiful isn’t it? <3
Not sure I understand Clark what do you mean?
How you handle a glass (another being) can be how you handle relationships based on what taught you relationships. Imagine being on a play ground with other kids.. some of those kids are playing with siblings and you are an only child.. How will you handle playing with other kids? yet if you have siblings how will you interact with the others on the play ground.. It is all an analogy with the purpose of stating how do you drink the water to how you absorb what it is to be with others and will they understand your ways of interacting based on the relationship laws you have come to grow up within? This can be simply seen in how you drink a glass of water in the way that you hold the glass, the way you absorb the water.. It all can be seen clearly if you seek to see it in your actions.
Think about the last relationship you had… How did you respond to things said or not said, and how ofter did you speculate or state the truth about what you were thinking? Now how did you absorb the expression of love that the other tried to give you and how did you change as a result? Did you find yourself in defense of what you could feel? did you also feel lost as to why they expressed something in a certain way? Did you state hurtful things to them? did they you? Now when those things happen did you hear a glass shatter in just the remembering of what happened? If the relationship continued how well did the glue that put the glass back together allow you to drink from? did it leak? did you cut yourself from the glass? do you see this better from this point of view?
What is your view on sexuality?
In the form of what communication is, there is a powerful word within communication itself based on shared energy with love, hate, anger, happiness, evolution, etc.. Communion is the word that this points.. Within this is the unity that two can experience in a physical that can either be of all emotional expressions without the words placed in connection with the touch itself..
The action can be directional.. Embracing the moment to do this can be felt a multitude of ways.. Some will bring great passion, some will bring uniformed acts that are self gratifying.. Greed is either abandoned or absorbed. The art of this itself is pleasurable to some and can be a have to for others..
Take a fatherless daughter who can engage in sex with a man.. They may seek acceptance in this way yet will want to just be held inside as a knowing the care that is missed will have a moment in solitude to not be the purpose of why they did so.. The same can be for a man.. A man who was fatherless will also seek this as a means to conquer the understanding of conquest to experience love in a multitude of ways.. None of which will ever satisfy the man only keep the illusion of sex as a means to give him a completeness that will not be filled until he awakens to himself..
The sexuality of this seems dark yet it has it’s point of impact and why the choice was made.. You can have a pure place inside you where just holding hands can be sexual.. You seek inside yourself and see that something else is relieved in procreation other than a boost to ones ego (thinking repeated patterns that keep you never seeing yourself completely!) and the expression to take being into a doorway to touch each other in ways that bond in sexuality..
The kiss should be the exchanging of souls… It should be always embraced in that way.. For anything else is just a chase that you are creating inside yourself and making the other responsible for it. How deep is your sexuality can be based on how you value your temple and who you invite into it to share with you.. and you with them! How beautiful is sex is how beautiful it is to be broken…
What are the main obstacles of memory?
Not seeing the sides of truth within it.. Example is as a child I was sent to my room to think about my actions and in the punishment of being told to think… I was secretly planning to run away and take that one toy with me.. I would be angry for all the wrong reasons and upset inside with what was outside me as a mode of thinking.. never seeing the point of the punishment.. What ends up happening as I got older I would never face conflict cause it was a means to shut down and be stuck in a mind dominated presence of what happened being sent to my room and thinking… The memory was a false one.. What should have been compassionate listening was changed to tormented thinking.. Blame, attack, isolated thinking that taught me how to shut down when that wasn’t the purpose as I got older.. Taking my one toy and evading… This obstacle was for what purpose? do you see it clearly.. The memory learned repeat behavior that never had an answer and didn’t need one.. Unlearn to learn the truth… This can be seen in a billion ways evading the truth as to what the memory served as… It was why history repeats and time eludes us as we lose this by memory creation… A memory should be content not a reason to be! Yet it is what we are taught to absorb in teachings.. as the underlying understanding of the recurring that happens in memory!
How do you awaken to these questions as you seek answers… All are within the tree of life….
