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The Internet is bombarded with overreacting women stereotype jokes, but the real reason for her reaction is often forgotten. Here are some common mistakes made by the husband that triggers the cranky wife button, avoid these mistakes to make your married life a happier one. Remember, Happy Wife = Happy Life.
1. Unappreciative
Women take the effort to look pretty for you, they change their hair, paint the nails and do their makeup just to look pretty for you. Take time to appreciate her efforts, start complimenting her, show that you care and notice her efforts.
2. Express Your Love Before It Is Too Late
Believe it or not, there are a few men who have not expressed their love to their wife, till her last breath. There is no use in crying and cribbing over her grave, show your love while she is alive. Like plants need water, relationship need love to grow and thrive, Say I love you to your wife at least once a week, make her feel loved and special.
3. Emotionally Unavailable
Men think that their physical presence in the home will make their wife happy, no it does not. Women are emotional creatures spend some couple time, do some activity together (like gardening, hiking or working out ) and create a bond with her. Even helping her with the household chores will bring you both together.
4. Small Gestures
Surprise her once in a while, give a break to the usual boring routine. You don't have to be dramatic with your surprises, once in a while surprise her with a romantic dinner, small gifts, even a single rose from you can brighten up her day.
5. Toxic Comparison
Comparing your wife to your mother or EX is not going to do any good to your relationship. Every person is unique in his or her way, try to appreciate that rather than comparing and poisoning your love relationship. If you think that your Ex is better than your wife remember - Grass is always greener on the other side.
6. Low on Communication
Communication is like oxygen for women; it is one an essential element for a successful marriage; But most men believe in the habit of shutting things out. Stop shutting your wife out from your life and start to share your day with her and show some genuine interest in the things going on in her life.
Even while starting a friendship, you tend to spend time with the individual to create a bond, if that is the case with friendship think about the time you need to invest for a successful marriage.
7. Never Saying Sorry
Many husbands see apologising as a classic sign of weakness even if the mistake is on their part. All relationships have conflict at times; the mistake could be on your side, if so do apologize and soothe her spirit.
8. Making Her Feel Insecure
Staring at beautiful woman is fine, but passing flirtatious comments is not welcomed. By continually repeating this behavior you can make your wife feel insecure. Avoid going gaga over another woman. Even men don't like their wife going gaga over the six pack of Matthew McConaughey or any other guy. If your wife have started to feel insecure and when she voices it out, do not take it lightly or tease her about it when she is upset; give her the assurance she seeks and ease up her mind.
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