Travel Magazine

7 Tips to Crush Your Next Virtual Date

By Urbanmatter Chicago @UMatterChicago
7 Tips to Crush Your Next Virtual Date7 Tips to Crush Your Next Virtual Date

If apps, ghosting, and double-text angst weren’t enough to deal with, 2020 obliterated the possibility of in-person first dates. Now, you get to take all your Zoom anxiety into the realm of relationships. It’s an actual nightmare. But you don’t have to put your love life on hold just because we’re living in the year of “wtf.” It just means developing a new skill set, and we have the virtual date tips you need to do so.

There are a lot of positive things about doing dating this way. One, you don’t have to worry about that awkward moment in a bar looking for someone that resembles their profile picture. For another, you’re on your home turf. You can order whatever food you want, drink whatever you want, and not worry about the other person judging you. It couldn’t matter less if your breath smells–you’re all alone. But not for long! We’re giving you seven tips for crushing your next virtual first date.

7 Tips to Crush Your Next Virtual DatePhoto Credit: Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash
  • Hold Onto Your Humanity

This tip sounds dramatic, but it’s a sincere plea to single people out there. Technology, texting, and keeping things virtual can minimize the humanity of the people we encounter, and our own. Remember, you’re a person who is interacting with other people. Let them know if you are or aren’t interested. Yes, ghosting is easier, but this year, in particular, should inspire us all to be the best version of ourselves even in the little moments.

Virtual Date TipsPhoto Credit: Met Gala on Facebook
  • Make an Effort

This is tough, but worth it. If you made it through lockdown still wearing pants with buttons, shoes, or bras, then you have an unbelievable constitution. For the rest of us, work clothes, date clothes, perfume/cologne, maybe even pants themselves are a distant memory. Break out your old style for your virtual dates. It’ll make it feel like a special occasion, and you still want to put your best foot forward, even if it’s just virtually.

Virtual Date TipsPhoto Credit: JESHOOTS.COM on Unsplash
  • Get Your Tech Settled

Getting something stuck in your teeth during a date is embarrassing, but you know what’s worse? If your Zoom freezes while you’re laughing and your date is staring at your awkward frozen face. You don’t want your neighbor’s stolen wifi to be the reason you missed out on true love. Connecting virtually is that much harder if your conversation breaks up every few minutes.

Virtual Date TipsPhoto Credit: tabitha turner on Unsplash
  • Plan an Actual Date

Please, please don’t just send someone a Zoom link without a plan. You’ll end up sitting in so many awkward silences, and neither of you deserves that. Bumble put together a cringe-worthy list of virtual date activities, but honestly, most of dating is pretty corny. We say, skip the Tik-Tok dance-off, but cooking together, ordering from the same restaurant, or meeting each other’s pets sound fun.

Virtual Date TipsPhoto Credit: Photo by Ben Collins on Unsplash
  • Practice Makes Perfect

Unless you Zoom your soul mate on the first try, this is a new skill, and it’s going to take some time to be authentic in a new way. If you’re working remotely, you may default into your professional self as soon as you see the green light illuminate. Your wit may not come across as well virtually as in person. Don’t beat yourself up after dates that are duds; just learn from the experience and persevere.

Virtual Date TipsPhoto Credit: Photo by Luke Porter on Unsplash
  • Do a Little Staging

Zoom anxiety is a real thing. We all tend to stare at the little box showing our own stupid faces, but it’s a bad habit. No one goes on second dates with people who can’t make eye contact, so as hard as it is, focus on the other person. But also, do yourself a favor with your virtual date setup. Invest in flattering lighting, distance yourself from the camera, and set it at eye level. Your laptop camera isn’t the highest quality, so if you’re virtual for everything, it might be worth investing in an actual webcam.

Next James Bond

Find Out Who Might Play the Next James Bond

Here’s are some super good virtual date tips. Read up on what there is to know about James Bond before your next one.

Find Out the Latest in James Bond News

Virtual Date TipsPhoto Credit: Photo by Dollar Gill on Unsplash
  • Be Safe

Not to bum everyone out, but not every person you meet and date (virtually or otherwise) is the delightful geode of beauty and sincerity that you are. Some people are nefarious. And as a beautiful geode, you have to harden your exterior to them. Some things to look out for:

  • – People who screenshot your virtual date and whatever might take place on that date.
  • – Scammers that ask for personal information, like your full name, phone number, or address. All of which they can use to steal your identity.
  • – If someone sends you phishing links. Good links: crazy Reddit stories, YouTube videos of unexpected animal friends, cute webcomics. Bad links: payment info requests, changing banking info, weird urls.

Always check people’s social media presence. While it’s understandable to be off Facebook, someone with no online presence is suspicious.

Remember, you’re under no obligation to continue a virtual date if you’re not comfortable.

Featured Image Credit: Unsplash

Back to Featured Articles on Logo Paperblog