If you want to have sex, make sure it is done right. And if its kinky sex you want, make up your mind to go as far as you can handle. No matter what option you choose, it is imperative to have all the supplies you need so that you don't have to skip any style you want to try because you don't have the basic needful.
When we talk about BDSM , some people might feel it's taking sex too far, but if you can't explore something you love in all the possible ways, where's the fun in it? Besides, who does boring regular sex these days when you can do more and get more results?
BDSM brings out your inner bad guy, and when you start, you begin to realise how much of a talented actor you are and how you could audition for the role of a villain in an action movie.
Whether you are looking to be the dominant or submissive the most important thing is to derive as much pleasure as possible from what you are doing, and we are here to help you get started as a kinkster. This article features a list of 10 BDSM sex toys you must have as a beginner.
Blindfolds
Why a blindfold? When you take away the ability of your partner to see, it means blocking a sense. And when one sense is blocked the others are heightened which is excellent for both the sub and the Dom. The blindfolded partner feels everything the Dominant does more than when she or he can see.
Bondage Tape
Bondage tapes are your go-to option if you want to explore restraint. These tapes are made from PVC, so they are less likely to hurt your partners like duct tape or other tapes that are adhesive based. Bondage tape does not stick to the skin; it only sticks to itself.
Hitachi's magic wand
The Hitachi's magic wand was created initially to be a back massager, but with time it became something more. Today this magic wand is arguably one of the best vibrators you can ever have.
Collars are cute and sexy, and you can choose to leave it simple or go extra when using collars. For some people, they prefer to purchase one from a pet store, but it is better to buy from a kink store as they have better and safer options for you to choose from.
Some collars come with extra features like a lock and key or spikes. Interestingly, collars have become like a fashion item as people wear them as chokers these days, so you can have one to visit a partner at work and send them an indirect message.
For kinsters who are fans of penetration, the dildo is the perfect item to purchase. Some dildos come with inbuilt vibrators, so it's suitable for masturbation and other forms of penetration.Sometimes, people attach dildos to a strap-on to spice things up when there is the need for anal penetration or vagina penetration. Lubricants must be handy though if you want to insert a dildo into a vagina or anus.
Apply a generous amount of lube around and on the area to be penetrated as well as on the dildo so that you do not bruise your partner or cause other forms of discomfort. If you are going to be sharing a dildo, make sure to clean it properly before passing it on for health reasons.
Also, in cases where the penis has been used for vagina sex, and you want to move on to penetrate the anus, it is healthier to use a dildo hooked to a strap-on.
