Breakup is not end of the world or for that matter even partial separation in a relationship. This is the perfect moment wherein you can ponder what went wrong in the relationship. If you truly love your partner, then it’s time to take efforts to get back him/her in your life. Immediately after your break up, it is essential for you to take the break up seriously. There is also need to analyze what went wrong between you and your partner.
Avoid making fun of your split. Firstly, you should try finding out whether your ex truly wants you back in his/her life. It has been seen most people fail to understand what is going on in the mind of their ex. There are few signs which strongly depict that your ex girlfriend is still interested in you.
1) Is She Trying To Be In Contact With You Again?
Does your partner tries to meet with you or tries to communicate with you frequently. Notice whether your partner openly expresses his or her love and affection towards you and is your ex occasionally goes to the place where you frequently visit. You may find that your ex has recently joined a gym and there has been noticeable improvement in his/her physical appearance. There might be a possibility that your partner makes efforts for changing his/her approach towards life as a whole in order to come back closer to you.
2) Are you still friends?
When your ex-girlfriend wants to be friends with you that means she is still interested in having some kind of relationship with you. By being friends with her, it gives you an opportunity to have some kind of relationship with her and work your way up to being her boyfriend again. This is one of the best signs your ex girlfriend wants you back. As a friend, you can give each other a chance to work out the differences.
3) Is She Showing Signs Of Wanting To Be With You Again?
If your ex girlfriend tells you all the reasons that why she does not want to be with you anymore, and she tells you what you should have done instead and that she would be with you if you change, then this is one of the best signs your ex girlfriend wants you back. She is basically saying that if you were not doing what you did or if you would do what she said she would BE WITH YOU!
4) Does She Voluntarily Make You Feel Jealous?
Don’t try to check whether your ex is into a new relation. Your ex partner may have started moving on with his or her old friends. Your partner might be doing it to make you jealous so that you return to your partner quickly. You need to be very careful and avoid jumping on conclusions. Don’t be reactive if he or she is in a fresh relationship after you. The more you react, the more you get things difficult for yourself.
Further reading for ya:
- 16 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back In Their Life – Lovepanky.com
- 7 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back – Teenadvice,about.com
- How to Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back – Wikihow.com
