A marriage is a voluntary union of one man with a woman. It is one of the fundamental purpose of a marriage that the both the individuals must live together and it is equally well-established rule of matrimonial law that one spouse is entitled to the society and comfort (consortium) of the other. Moreover, it is the purest form of bond which unites two individual under the shadow of trust and faith. Additionally, it binds two people for their life with a promise of being together in all the series of ups and downs they come across in life.
When your marriage is on the verge of being fractured, take a step which gives your marriage one more opportunity to survive. Resolve the issues bothering your spouse or give the other, time to get comfortable to disclose the issues in front of you. There is no point of yelling at each other because in most cases it leads to futile arguments, which spoil the mood.
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Three basic foundations of a great marriage are Communication, consideration and compromise. I suppose they all work jointly to bring love for all the couples in marriage.
Communication
Often lack of communication is equally responsible for the difference created between the partners. Till you don’t speak out as to how you want it to work or how you want to put each other problems across the table, things are not going to be solved on their own. Learn to communicate maturely, instead of getting into unnecessary quarrels. Confession to your partner about anything that is bothering you might save the marriage. It is not easy to let go difference which have hurt you, but not giving the marriage a last chance to work out, is just one more contribution to adding another piece in your mountain of mistakes.
Consideration
Instead of reacting impulsively, consider each other’s point of view. Don’t try to be self oriented all the time. Give opportunity to clarify each other’s expectations of marriage. It will help to prevent feeling disillusioned or simply feeling unhappy in the relationship down the road. Couples often get jammed in what appears to be the similar argument over and over. You should expect to learn effective ways to deal with your particular concerns. There are always ways to handle conflict that enhance rather than harm the relationship, giving and receiving love according to each partner’s particular needs.
Compromise
Compromise is always a big issue among couples across different parts of world. The basic reason compromise exists is because of compassion. Compassion means giving up your personal pleasure for the sake of someone else’s. Marriage thrives in compassion, so the more there’s compassion in a relationship, the more will be the relationship successful in the longer run. There no other bigger and better reason for a happy married life.
It is a universal question between couples, “Why should I compromise all the time?” Even before you think about separation, understand and question yourself is it reasonable enough just to end your marriage and finish the story, just because your fed up to work it out!
Further reading:
- Kate Thompson: Secrets to a Successful Marriage - Huffingtonpost.co.uk
- Ten Secrets to a Successful Marriage – Focusonthefamily.com
- Seven tips for a successful marriage – Guardian.co.uk
