Thegenaboveme
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Observations and insights about the aging process. I spent decades helping young adults as a college writing teacher / advisor. Watching my parents deal with age-related changes has motivated me to focus instead on human growth and development for people 50+. I see active aging as part science, part performance art.
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The Generation Above Me
http://thegenerationaboveme.blogspot.com/
Observations about the challenges and opportunities of aging. Everyone is aging. But by midlife, most become very aware of their parents' age-related needs and start managing their own aging issues. Blog entries focus on improving the art of active aging by offering information and insights about health, fitness, finances, relationships and more.
LATEST ARTICLES ( 494 )
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Goodbye to Gary, My Mom's Husband
Gary M. Lloyd and Donna W. LloydWedding Reception November 2, 1989Earlier this month, my mother's husband of thirty-six years was tested positive for influenza. Read more
Posted on 25 January 2026 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
2026 WOTY: Listen
Photo by Catherine Singletonvia Creative CommonsInstead of making a New Year's Resolution, I adopt a Word of the Year. If you have not heard of this concept, yo... Read more
Posted on 04 January 2026 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Happy 14th Blogoversary
Image by Scott McLoudvia Creative CommonsAh, the earth has made another trip around the sun, and this blog has accrued another anniversary, or blogoversary, if... Read more
Posted on 01 January 2026 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
2025 Top Ten Posts
Image fromBoston Public Libraryvia Creative CommonsIt's that time of year where many are taking a backward glance over the concluding year. Here are the ten... Read more
Posted on 31 December 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Memorial Days: Book Review
Published29 January 2022I have read three other books by Geraldine Brooks (People of the Book being my favorite), and I had the chance to meet her at a book... Read more
Posted on 28 December 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Remember: Book Review
Published23 March 2021I had the opportunity to read Lisa Genova's novel Still Alice prior to the release of the film based on her fictional account of a woman... Read more
Posted on 09 November 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Three Days in June: Book Review
Published on11 Feb 2025I have been reading Anne Tyler's novels since the 1980s, and I am delighted that she is still publishing. Her main characters are often... Read more
Posted on 05 October 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
When the Cranes Fly South: Book Review
Published in English 19 August 2025This book uses a technique that helps readers have increased compassion for older adults experiencing their decline. Read more
Posted on 21 September 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Fighting Fatigue with Healthy Lifestyle Choices
Image by Zaytsev Artem via Creative CommonsAnyone who is a teacher understands the shock that happens during the transition from summer to fall. It happens ever... Read more
Posted on 31 August 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Indigenous Elders
Image by woodleywonderworksvia Creative CommonsDuring the summer of 2025, I had the opportunity to attend two powwows. In the early summer, I attended one hoste... Read more
Posted on 13 July 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Hiking Bryce Canyon at 8,000 Feet Above Sea Level
Bryce Canyon June 2025I told myself that I was in great shape, given that I lift weights, swim, and attend yoga regularly each week. However, going on a hike... Read more
Posted on 15 June 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Interest in My Scandinavian Kin
Ancestry.com MapsYour Ancestors for YouBefore moving to Sanpete County, my mother informed me that I had ancestors from Denmark on my father's side. Read more
Posted on 17 May 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Our Family Dog Crossed the Rainbow Bridge This Spring
My favorite photo of Bolt, taken April 2020b. June 2007 - d. April 2025Trigger warning. Description of a dog slipping into frailty and then going to the vet... Read more
Posted on 19 April 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
More Community Building
Photo by Wren aka KDAMy WOTY (word of the year) for 2024 was "Community." However, I am still very focused on connecting with people in my new county. Read more
Posted on 31 March 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Dementia: Personal Experience
Image by Abhijit Bhaduri via Creative Commons When I was pursuing my master's program in gerontology between 2010 and 2013, I decided to focus on issue of... Read more
Posted on 08 March 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Cognitive Overload
Photo by Michael Reutervia Creative CommonsA few months after I moved from Indiana to Utah, I started carrying a clear, plastic stadium purse? Why? I kept losin... Read more
Posted on 22 February 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Tom Lake: Book Review
Published 1 Aug 2023Oh, Tom Lake was a quiet yet powerful narrative. I am crying softly because Ann Patchett did such a good job weaving together characters,... Read more
Posted on 08 February 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Word of the Year: Meek
Image by BrayDawgvia Creative CommonsInstead of making New Year's resolutions, I choose a word of the year. (Here is an explanation.) This year I have selected... Read more
Posted on 31 January 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
Happy 13th Blogoversary
Image by eflon via Creative CommonsI started my blog on aging thirteen years ago today. I realize that Instagram and TikTok are becoming more popular among the... Read more
Posted on 01 January 2025 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH -
2024 Top Ten Posts
Photo by Andre' Hofmeistervia Creative CommonsAnother year is coming to a close, so I am looking in the rearview mirror once again. In 2024, I wrote and... Read more
Posted on 31 December 2024 COMMUNITY, FAMILY, LIFE COACH
