Like any other relationship, love affair also has its own set of problems. Whenever two human beings interact, the problems and rifts are bound to appear. It is unrealistic to say that a particular relationship is void of any kind of problem. [Read: How to Patch Up the Relationship in a Married Life]
In order make a love relationship sustainable, we must be able to identify the problems and then find out their solutions. Here are a few common problems that can be encountered by any couple in their love relationship.
Frequent Arguments
Once you talk to your lover or have a meeting, both of you indulge in frequent arguments, [Read: Tips to Identify and Resolve Problems in Love Relationship]. It is meaningless to say who starts the argument. A normal discussion on a very common subject would usually take an ugly turn and both of you would find yourself dragged into a useless and wasteful quarrel. Again, the subject of discuss also doesn't matter much. You would feel that in the past both of you have been discussing same topics with ease, but now these can conveniently lead you to a quarrel. [ How to Say Sorry to Your Boyfriend]
Feeling More Angry and Confused
In the early stages of your love, both of you would remain in excited mood and high spirits, [Read: What is Flirting and How it Keeps Interest in a Relationship]. However with the passage of time these pleasant feelings are no more there. When you meet your partner, you feel frustrated without any plausible reason. You may be searching for the reasons but to no effect.
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Complaining About Your Relationship to Others
When you meet different people- your friends, colleagues and relatives, you may be inclined to make complaints about your love relationship. You may be telling them about your bad and unpleasant experiences with your partner. You may talk against the partner even if you are not asked about that person. You may talk of the apathy, indifference or disloyalty of your partner.
Not Trusting Your Partner
With the passage of time you feel that you are losing trust in your partner. You may express this sentiment in various forms and at different occasions. This lack of trust may be reflected in strained relations with your partner. On many occasions both of you may pick up quarrels on trivial issues.
Difficulty in Expressing to Your Partner
Though you had started your love affair on a very pleasant tone, but over a period of time you are feeling it difficult to communicate with your partner, [Read: Five Reasons Why First Love Has a Lasting Impact on Our Lives]. Many topics and subjects of mutual discussion would now have become much awkward to talk about. You may not be very frank in your expression and discussion with the partner. A tinge of rigidity and coolness will be visible in your relationship.
Betrayal
Betrayal and disloyalty are the major threats to your love affair. If you find that your partner is disloyal to you it can totally alter the course of your relationship, [Read: Why You Should Be Faithful and Loyal to Your Spouse]. Your attitude and behavior will change with your partner drastically and you will feel as if the old and time tested love affair is going to end very soon now. You may start suspecting your partner of infidelity. A sense of uncertainty will prevail and you will not know where your love relationship is leading to. [Read: How to Catch a Cheating Wife]
