Female aggression is characterized by underhandedness, subterfuge, passive-aggression, silent treatment, the withholding of sex, cattiness, clique formation, rivalry, man-stealing, rumor proliferation, pettiness, treachery, vindictiveness, and grudge-holding.
These of course are the types of aggression that are favored by weaker individuals in general, often seem among slaves, workers, or mistreated domestic help.
Males of course are vastly more aggressive than females in general, and we are also just flat out colder. Women are much warmer, kinder, more nurturing, caring, sympathetic, empathetic and giving than men area. This follows from the necessity of all of these things in raising children.
The world of men tends to be a very brutal and savage one in many ways across time and space, hence any sort of softness doesn’t really benefit you and may be seen as weakness both by other men and even women themselves. In addition, men are socialized away from soft and sensitive feelings by acculturation which punishes and threatening them when they display this behavior. Most guys learn one way or another. For many males, childhood was often the most brutal part of their lives, but from it hopefully emerges a man.
