Body, Mind, Spirit Magazine

Stupid Things Women Think, Say and Do... Part Un.

By Misslara16 @misslara
So I was walking back from Boots today when I started to think about stupid things women say and do... 
In fact I remembered a conversation I had with 'Fatima' a very intelligent school mate a few weeks ago about equality between men and women. She was of the school of thought that women and men are different and cannot be compared.. You can only determine equality if the two things in question have the same characteristics... she said. She concluded that both genders should be accorded its due respect as one can not say that we are equal neither can one say that one is inferior. I agree with her to an extent.
My topic of discuss is not eaquality of genders, I just want to talk quickly about stupid things women think say and do. This is going to be a series on this blog... Your full participation is required and greatly appreciated.
STUPID THING NO1;
'My man is free to cheat so far he doesnt do it to my face, its in the nature of a man to cheat'
Is there a difference if he does it to your face or behind your back? In my opinion only women with low self esteem say things like that. Somewhere in your mind you feel that is all you deserve, you feel you do not deserve a man who is wholly commited to you, who loves you enough to keep his zippers up or his text maessages from wandering.
You Think 'if i accept this nonsense he will never leave', sorry darling but he will leave, in fact a man who cheats on you does not love you in the first place. You have to stop belittling yourself, You have to tell yourself you deserve a man who gives you his all, and giving you his complete attention is a rare priviledge on his part. Change your thought patterns and take control of your life, you dont have to conform to the standards of the world. You dont have to compromise your happiness for a dysfunctional relationship. My point is you should not settle for inhumane treatment just because you need a boyfriend, husband etc
This is my one penny...

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