I’ve heard of escorts pricing individual acts, but have no idea how the prices are communicated to the client without possibly exposing yourself in front of an undercover cop. I don’t think a handjob should not be priced the same as anal considering the disparity in risk and effort between the two.
In general, it’s a really bad idea for an escort to charge for anything other than time, though most escorts have a lower social rate for dates without private time (in other words conducted completely in public such as dinner or drinks). It’s true that BDSM and fetish are generally priced a little lower than full service, which I personally think is stupid; dommes take a long time to learn their craft and they need to invest a great deal more energy and imagination in a session than GFE escorts like me have to. Furthermore, they need a lot of expensive specialized equipment in addition to the lingerie, makeup, beauty costs, condoms, lube, etc that escorts need. So they should charge more than regular escorts, not less! But I digress; other than the disparities I mentioned, no escort I know charges a la carte, or if she does she doesn’t tell me. Flat-rate pricing generally operates in the sex worker’s favor anyway; would you really want to have to give a refund if a client pays for full service, but then climaxes while you’re warming him up with mouth or hands? Because I sure wouldn’t. If you feel a particular menu item is more effort than you want to expend, either don’t offer it at all or only offer it to regulars you like.
As for cops, I’ve said this many times but it bears repeating: You cannot actually protect yourself from a cop trying to trick you, because cops lie; if you let one in your door or go in his door, you will be arrested no matter what you say or do. He will simply claim you said whatever the local DA requires to press charges on you. The only way to be safe from a cop is to detect him before you meet him or even talk very much. If you meet him, you’re going for a ride no matter what you said or didn’t say, so proper screening is your best safeguard.
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