I’ve been with a wide variety of providers in my past and I’m now married to a wonderful woman, but I still feel the need to share thoughts and experiences (and nothing else) with someone who is extraordinarily open-minded and intelligent. Might you be able to introduce me to someone else whom I could connect with? 
I’m interested in connecting with anybody willing to pay for my time, whether sex is involved or not; I have regular gents for whom sex is only a small part of their relationship with me. However, I’m hearing that you’re not looking for a courtesan but a platonic friend in a relationship without a pragmatic element in either direction, yours or hers. And if that is indeed the case, I’m afraid there is nothing I can do for you. While I’m flattered that you think I have the kind of wisdom a matchmaker requires and puzzled that you think I could invest the time and effort to find a match for a stranger, there are entire dating & “friend finder” services dedicated to this kind of thing. It’s just not something a lone person, even one with the talent and energy that I lack, can do for anyone outside of a small and tight-knit community. I wish you good luck in whatever it is you’re searching for, though.
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