What is love? How tough is it?
'Real love begins when nothing is expected in return'..
Well, yeah, this happens with lot of people and yes it's true.
How you feel when you know that the person is your best friend but is leaving you too soon? You don't want that in real but you can't change the change which has already been planned, right? But now that the person is going and now I always give it a thought, why people throw rocks on the things that shine? Love is tough though, be it with anyone, you just have to either express it or leave it aside, there's no in between!
What happens when love strikes through?
As I always wondered, what is this love? yeah, it's just a bone of contention for few I would say but some magical feeling which definitely breaks through one's heart. And it did, finally! I was so happy, that cloud nine feel was something in a word, 'mystical' which even drive me crazy. And I thought why I shouldn't tell him? Many questions started prompting in my head at that course of time, to say or not to say? Express or just let it go? and so on,. Finally I expressed but ask me, it didn't go very well. Some may just ignore it, some just won't accept it or maybe it has never happened (the best thing ever). And I got to quote Ed Sheeran, 'How people fall in love in mysterious ways?'
What happens when someone starts intruding into your personal life?
People are more curious to know each and every little thing about others lives much they would have given a thought on theirs. So now here we say does that change is more planned or destined? I would say 'planned'. If people would be more concerned about their future, their lives and of course their love lives, then 'surefire' everything would become lot less complicated and we could be able to at least breath the space that we're getting. Well this piece is very personal, I hate when others start planning and start blabbering all stupid stuff they can possibly say about anyone's life especially when they talk about friendship which is just FRIENDSHIP, I mean who are you to decide that, right? It's just the say of those two people who are involved and no one else. I've heard people saying many awful and absurd things which seriously make no sense when put in all together!
How to deal with it?
Be it in any situation, to all those who like doing this stuff just say to them, 'Before you judge how I live my life, I humbly suggest you to take a look at your own'. Just don't even think about it, people would not stop, they are never satisfied it just keep spreading like a wildfire. But only you can end this by not caring of what people out there say. Just remember, 'It's better to walk alone, than to walk with crowd going in wrong direction'. And for more, just walk away because you don't have time for all this show business.
And to conclude with:
'We fall in love by chance, but we stay in love with choice'. It's your life, your rules and so just live with it, nothing else matter.
