You know, when we came back from Sweden, the reason why I decided to enroll her in school after much procrastination was because I thought she needed to learn to interact with people, to acquire some social skills and to build up friendship after being alone in a foreign land for the first three years of her life. When the baby sister came along, I realised that having the big one in school meant that I had more time to devote to bonding with the baby and get the household chores done in the mornings before we start the day as three.
I asked her teachers on why they thought she had a need to switch to full day. Their replies were "Oh, because we do art and craft sometimes when they wake up from their afternoon nap", "Because she is in Kindergarten 1 class already" and "Because she will miss out on what her peers are learning".
Honestly, I wasn't really worried but I decided to ask if they felt that my girl was lagging behind the rest but they said she had no problem in her school work and in fact, I was told that last year, she was the only one who could write her Chinese name. So, even if I tried to persuade myself, I just couldn't find a reason as to why I should let her spend longer hours in school when the reason why I chose to be a stay-at-home mom was to spend more time with my kids.
For sure, I am not the best teacher because I teach her random stuff and only when I can afford the time. I don't have any fixed syllabus, I don't use much assessment books, I don't have a timetable where we make it a point to regularly revise what she had been taught. In fact, I strongly believe that at her age, learning doesn't just come from books. It comes from seeing, hearing, smelling, touching, playing, discovering and exploring. Much as I always get asked on why I like to bring two kids out every other day, I just don't like the idea of staying indoors too often because the way I see it, there is just so much more for us to learn in the world out there.
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Things I want to do more often with Angel
I want to bring her to more playgrounds, I want to let her learn to overcome obstacles and conquer her fears.
I want her to bring her to the pool, to let her splash around and just have a wet and wild time. 
I want to take her to the supermarket and teach her the names of food and household goods while we practice her alphabets and maths along the way.
I want to have weekday lunches with her on our 3-girls date. Even if it means burgers and fries.
I want to take her to more parks, to breathe in more fresh air, to learn about flora and fauna. 
I want to bring her to more beaches, build more sandcastles and pick more seashells.
I want her to have the confidence to try out new things and realize that she can accomplish so much more than she thinks.
I want her to get close to nature, to see, to hear and to feel everything that the world has to offer her, things that she cannot learn from just books.
I want her to play games with me and learn that she cannot be the winner every single time. I don't want her to be a sore loser but I want her to try her best in everything she does.
I want her to know that life has its up and downs and when life deals her a blow, she needs to learn to pick herself up from the fall and move on strongly.
I want her to be able to paint her own colours of life, to unleash her creativity and to be as imaginative as she can.
I want to be the one who reads to her everyday, not a teacher to a bunch of students, but just a mom to her two dearest kids.
I want to have more afternoon picnics with her, even if they are just pretend ones.
I want to see so much more of her gorgeous smiles and know that happiness is in her heart.
I want her to look up in the sky more and understand that life is so much more than just school, homework and books.
And most importantly, the one big reason why I like to have more of her around every day, is just so that I want these two to bond, to love, to play, to know that more than just sisters, they can be best friends for life. Toy snatching and hair pulling aside, I see them laughing, tickling, hugging and snuggling so much that it warms my heart more than I can say.So you see, these are but just some of the things that made me feel that half is really enough. Before she hits primary school, I am really going to cherish each and every of these afternoons that I get to spend with not one, but both of my girls.
Life is really so much more than just books, and kids only get to live their childhood once, so while they are still young, let's just not worry about academics too much and focus more on bonding, laughter and play, shall we?
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