Reader Question: I wonder if it's possible to find a single bridesmaid dress that will work for a group of women?
When it comes to selecting the perfect bridesmaid dress, the process can be both exciting and daunting. Every individual has a unique body shape, and finding a dress that flatters each bridesmaid is essential to ensure everyone feels confident and beautiful on the special day. With an understanding of various body shapes and a few key tips, we can help you choose the most flattering bridesmaid dress for each member of your bridal party. From A shape to H shape, from 8 to V shapes, we've got you covered.
You'll never find the exact same dress to suit your entire bridal party (unless they have the same figure shape), but you can easily use colour to make the outfits cohesive and then choose different styles to suit each of your bridesmaids.
You can choose a universal colour that won't make anyone look bad, such as teal, turquoise or red-violet.
These principles can also be applied to choosing a dress for any formal occasion - whether it's a Christmas party, graduation, or birthday celebration or attending a wedding as a guest or even mother of the bride or groom.
Understanding Different Body Shapes and The Most Flattering Dress Shapes
The H and O Shapes
For bridesmaids with H shape or O shape bodies, the goal is to draw attention away from the midsection and create a balanced silhouette. Opt for dresses with empire waists or straight shapes with fabric that doesn't cling to the tummy. V-necklines can elongate the torso, while dresses with details such as chiffon overlays, ruching or draping can create a more flattering look.
The 8 Shape
Bridesmaids with an 8 shape hourglass figure often have well-defined waists and proportionate upper and lower bodies. Emphasize the natural curves with dresses that cinch at the waist and highlight the figure. Mermaid or sheath dresses can showcase the curves elegantly, while wrap dresses can accentuate the waistline beautifully.
The I Shape
This shape can wear pretty much any style, from fit and flare to straighter shapes. Choose styles based on personal preferences for necklines, hemlines and for fitting in with the other bridesmaids.
The A Shape
A-shaped bridesmaids typically have smaller shoulders and wider hips. Look for dresses that accentuate the upper body while minimizing the focus on the hips. A-line or ball gown dresses work well for this body type, as they flare out from the waist, balancing the proportions. Boat necklines and flutter sleeves also help to balance hips. Choosing darker colors for the bottom half can also help create a more balanced appearance.
The X Shape
X shape hourglass figures (which are widest at their low hip) are most flattered by fit and flare dress styles, avoid fitted mermaids and sheath styles that cling to thighs.
The V Shape
For bridesmaids with an athletic body shape, the goal is to create the illusion of curves and add femininity. Look for dresses with ruffles, layers, or embellishments on their lower half that add volume and create the appearance of curves and balance the shoulders.. Halter necklines can soften the shoulders and create a more delicate look, while fitted dresses can add the illusion of curves. Avoid styles with boat necks and spaghetti straps which will further broaden her shoulders.
Consider Body Variations Too
Large busts call for a lower neckline, whilst a small bust can look great in a higher one. If you have a bridesmaid with a large bust, go for a style that allows for a regular bra rather than a strapless (which will make her uncomfortable after a short time).
Fuller upper arms look great with a floaty sleeve.
Petites can look better in shorter styles, whilst your taller bridesmaids may look great in longer styles.
Tummies can be camouflaged with chiffon overlays that hide all manner of things.
Tips for Finding the Perfect Bridesmaid Dress
Consider the Fabric
Choosing the right fabric is crucial in ensuring both comfort and style. Opt for fabrics that drape well and don't add extra bulk to any particular area. Flowy fabrics like chiffon or georgette can complement various body shapes, while structured fabrics like satin can add a more formal touch, but be aware that shiny fabrics can make areas of the body appear larger as the light curves and bounces off it.
Pay Attention to Necklines
Different necklines can greatly impact the overall look of a dress. V-necks can elongate the neck and torso and minimise a larger bust, while sweetheart or scoop necklines can soften the upper body. High necklines can add an elegant touch and work well with smaller busts, and halter necklines are great for square or broad shoulders.
Experiment with Colors and Patterns
While choosing the right color is important, look for colors that work for all your bridesmaids so that nobody looks washed out. You'll have those photos for a long time! Opt for solid colors to create a streamlined look, you could choose one colour or similar kinds of colours (if the intensity is the same and the value, such as all pastels, or all jewel tones, it's then easier to have different colours if you want to go for that option. If patterns are your choice, look for ones that complement the overall theme of the wedding.
The Importance of Comfort and Confidence
While it's crucial to prioritize the aesthetics, ensuring that your bridesmaids feel comfortable and confident in their dresses is equally essential. When they feel good, it reflects in their overall demeanor and appearance.
Tailoring Is Key
Regardless of the body shape, proper tailoring can make a significant difference in how a dress fits. Customizing the dress to each bridesmaid's measurements ensures a perfect fit and enhances the overall look. A well-fitted dress can accentuate the positive features and make everyone feel comfortable and confident.
Final Thoughts on Choosing Flattering Formal Dresses
Selecting the ideal bridesmaid dress that flatters every body shape can be a delightful experience when approached with the right knowledge and attention to detail. By understanding each body shape and following the provided tips, you can ensure that your bridal party looks and feels their best on your special day. Remember that the key lies in finding a dresses that not only complements individual body types but also reflects the overall theme and style of the wedding.
Whatever the occasion, choose a dress that you love, that makes you feel stylish as there is most likely to be camera's about and you want to feel comfortable and confident in those photos.
If your bridesmaids (or you) are not sure of their body shape, get them to do my free body shape calculator quiz here and then you'll get a set of guidelines on what flatters their figure.
