Sam writes:
Maybe you would like to promote or say all this gagging puking porno is ok? Slapping, choking? Feel free to ally yourself with this.
Sam just listed some of the extreme porn out there. Let’s go through these one by one. Keep in mind that I see myself as a pretty dominant guy in bed, but even I can’t get behind a of of this stuff.
Gagging: Ok, this is when the woman is deep throating a penis. It’s hard to do this because your gag reflex kicks in. The gag reflex exists to keep you from choking on objects in your throat. If an object is stuck in your throat, your gag reflex kicks in to repel the object out of the throat with some sort of vomiting-type action. Vomiting is pretty gross, but it beats choking to death on a piece of steak.
Actually, a number of people choke to death every year in the US. This often occurs in a restaurant and the food in question is often a piece of steak. The steak gets caught in the throat and the person dies right there in the middle of the restaurant. A doctor named Heimlich invented a maneuver called the Heimlich Maneuver to pull the piece of whatever out of the person’s throat and save their life. I believe he discovered this while saving someone’s life at a restaurant meal.
You can avoid this by cutting your food into small pieces and chewing it well. Don’t try to swallow too much food at once. Wash down your throat periodically with water to keep it clear and lubricated. Eat slowly; don’t eat too fast.
To tell you the truth, most women can’t seem to deep throat my cock, at least in recent days. They can only get it halfway down. So I don’t know much about this deep throating business. However, some women are able to pull it off. I must say it’s a remarkable achievement for any woman who can do it.
In a lot of porn now, the guys shove their penises down the woman’s throats and hold them there as the woman starts gagging. I honestly do not see the turn-on here. It sounds a bit disgusting actually, and it’s also violent.
Puking: Yep, puke porn is back. The guy shoves his penis down the woman’s throat so far and for so long without letting her come up for air that she starts gagging and also vomiting anywhere from a little to a lot. Um, I really do not think I want a woman puking on my cock! I do not want a woman to give me a blowjob only to pull off and then vomit all over wherever we are having sex. Vomit is disgusting; I hate vomit. Even the smell of it makes me want to vomit myself. There are quite a few times when I feel like I could vomit but I try not to do so because vomiting is the last thing on Earth that I want to do as it is so disgusting.
I do not understand why I am supposed to get a hard-on and jerk off wildly because I just saw some woman vomit. Puke is a turn-on? Vomit gets you hard? What’s wrong with you? Color me mystified.
Slapping: I’ve never done this either, but I might not mind it if she wanted me to.
I always clear everything with my female partner. I say, “Do you want me to do this to you? I am not sure I really want to do that to you.” For instance, “I am not sure I want to spit on your face. Do you really want me to spit on your face?”
If I slapped her really lightly, perhaps it might be ok. I have slapped women in the face with my cock though, and it was pretty fun. They usually like it too. In some of this slapping porn, they are hitting these women pretty hard. That just seems like violence and hate. If I’m having sex with a woman, it’s generally because I like her or even love her. Lately most of my sex is in relationships, so I usually love the woman I have sex with. If I love my girlfriend, why the Hell should I slap the Hell out of her. That’s an act of contempt, hatred. Screw that.
Choking: That’s just messed up period. The only men who choke women while they are having sex with them are rapists and sex murderers. In fact, strangulation is a typical way that sex killers dispose of their victims, possibly because it’s easy and it won’t leave any prints. So if you are having sex with a woman and choking her, you are pretending to be a sex killer or a rapist. I do not know about you, but I do not like to pretend I am Ted Bundy when I am having sex with a woman. It also seems like an act of violence and hatred, to say the least. If you love your girlfriend, why the Hell are you pretending to strangle her to death?
In a previous article, I noted that the medical opinion is that you should never choke anyone during sex. There is no way to know if it is safe or not. You may get away with it, or you may not. If you don’t get away with it, the person being choked may get a TIA stroke or even a heart attack. And there are a lot of other injuries that go along with this too.
