Akata Women 101: For Nigerian Men Who Want to Date/marry Akata Women..

First of all, this blog post is an advice from me to you guys. I love my Nigerian men so much and I don’t want to see anyone of you hurt. 

Advice:

1. Don’t date or marry any woman who constantly puts her hands all in your face and rolls her neck: there’s a fine line between love and stupidity. If you marry a woman like this you are marrying at your own risk. She will STRESS you out.

2. Do not date or marry any woman with four children all from different men: this type of woman is running a business that you don’t want to need to support. If you really love her; seek guidance and let wisdom guide your decision.3. If you want to move back to Nigerian permanently- she needs to know that information as soon as possible-if she not willing to move back with you then she is not for you. Even if you don’t want to move back permanently, you can still ask her to see what she would say. If you have to move back for some reason is she willing to take that leap of faith with you?
3. When in doubt, go for the woman who loves you and wouldn’t stress you out: living in this country can be stressful. It’s important that you choose a woman that will give you the least stress. Prayerfully date her. Bring her around family and listen to what they tell you.
4. Be very careful with an insecure woman-she calls you ten times a day asking where you are. She is willing to fight every girl who looks at you. Her insecurity will cage you. You can’t take her anywhere because you don’t know who she will fight.
5. Avoid any woman with no goals for herself. Date/marry women of the same caliber. Don’t undermine your standards for looks.7. Marry a woman with the same values and morals as you. There will always be cultural differences morales and values will balance it out.Point of the gist is to: AVOID
   1. Insecure women
   2. Ghetto-drama queens
   3. Business women with children from different men
   4. A woman who will stress you out
   5. Women with no goals or ambitions.

   Akata Women you should go for:
   1. Humble/Peaceful
   2. Goal-oriented/Educated/Ambitious
   3. Open-minded
   4. Love you
   5. Support and encourage your goals
   6. Positive outlook on life

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