If you want to get into the friend zone, just keep acting like her friend and she’ll send you there. But this is not what you want, right? The girl you met is really hot and you’re interested in her sexually. If you have romantic intentions, you need to let her know about them. Not explicitly, of course. Women are extremely observant and very often they don’t need your words to figure you out. Your body language and behavior speak volumes about your intentions. Use the following techniques to charm and seduce any woman you like
Ignite the sparkle of love
How should a girl understand that you plan a romantic relationship with her if you act like her best female friend? Talking hours on end, discussing different topics, always picking up the phone when she calls you, and excluding any flirting or banter from your interaction will make her feel too comfortable with you. Probably, she viewed you as her potential romantic partner in the beginning and waited for your first move. But since you failed to give her at least a subtle sign of what you really have on your mind and chose to be a nice guy, she gave up any hope and friendzoned you in her thoughts.
Getting out of the friend zone can be pretty difficult so you should do everything in order not to get into in. First of all, you should get her interested in your personality. For this, keep intriguing her, come up with new rich jokes, be playful at times, and flirt with her. Secondly, you need to show her that you want to be more than just friends. Touching is the best way of conveying your romantic intentions. Touch her as if accidentally at first, then hold her by the hand or touch as you flirt, and, finally, embrace her and watch her reaction. If she doesn’t mind, she is drawn to you too.
Radiate confidence but be self-deprecating
Sound contradictory? Only at first sight. You know how important confidence is for men. Women are attracted to confident men and find them extremely sexy. But many guys in their attempt to come across as strong and confident just put on a mask of confidence and act like flawless robots. Very often they get the opposite results: women think they are arrogant and vain. You should know that women like not only confident men but also funny guys who can spice any situation with a bit of humor and take it easy. Don’t be afraid of making fun of yourself – tell her a story about your clumsiness in a self-deprecating way to show that you feel comfortable with yourself. Women welcome healthy self-criticism and find it very attractive in men.
Use your eyes
Perhaps, you already know that regular eye contact is essential when you talk to a woman. By looking her in the eyes you show that you’re interested in her. Staring is often interpreted as a sign of strong affection but you should be careful with prolonged gazes in order not to freak a girl out. Apart from her eyes, look at her lips – she’ll think you want to kiss her. Although your looks at some alluring parts of her body may flatter her, those looks should not be too obtrusive especially if she is not very enthusiastic about your flirting.
Disarm her
Even if she is sexually attracted to you, she’ll put her defense on because she doesn’t want to come across as a woman of easy virtue. Before you get to taking down her defense, you need to understand whether she ignores you because she is not interested in you or she just plays hard to get. If she hasn’t run away yet, then most likely she is waiting for your decisive move.
Be romantic and courteous
Manners make the man and women fall for the men with good manners. Be a real gentleman and you’ll win the heart of any lady. Women want to feel fragile and feminine and only a real man – a gentleman – can give them this feel. Since many guys consider all that gentlemanly stuff outdated, you have a chance to stand out and become a winner.
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