d) centered on their own concerns of loss and pain in not being able to take care of yourself well.
e) not being heard and acknowledged effectively ~ not being able to inform someone that you need the time to nurture yourself.
a) a lack of communication - are you communicating in your love language ? b) desensitization – no sympathy or empathy or feeling for the other person. c) lack of nurturance of the time/ gift - not nurturing their relationship effectively;