Men and women enjoy sex in different ways, this can be seen most clearly by the time of the act itself. For an average man, 2 to 5 minutes are enough for orgasm during penetration. For an average woman, this time is not enough, the time for a woman to get excited varies from 15 minutes or more!
Now think about your average sex time and think, maybe you should change something?
The time gap is very real, but what can be done to make both of you feel good?
Increase the time of foreplay
A good and high-quality foreplay is vital for a woman to experience an orgasm (we are not talking about the format of quick sex now, when there are a couple of minutes and everyone is wildly excited/ the adrenaline in this case goes off the scale, and the sensations become more intense). We're talking about sex that happens in the bedroom.
Dear men, remember, a woman needs to be warmed up well with kisses, massage, oral sex or with the clitoris stimulator Gcat, penetration with fingers - and these should be repeated actions, but methodical and consistent. You can't hurry.
Communication
Word of mouth can achieve a lot. How will your partner know what you want? Is he a telepath? Of course not, no one can read minds. Therefore, only practice and your guiding words, movements, show: how to caress, where to caress, with what force to press with your fingers. Ask your partner to be gentler, or conversely more assertive.
Create an environment in which you feel good. It can be a candle and music, your favorite underwear, bed linen. Take a moment to whisper in his ear what kind of outfit you'd like to be in tomorrow (or when you're having sex). Be free in your desires!
Anatomy
All orgasms that a woman can have are clitoral. It can be external stimulation of the head of the clitoris, penetrating vaginal stimulation (the legs of the clitoris are captured here), as well as penetrating anal stimulation (the legs of the clitoris also work).
And the situation is brewing, if a woman masturbates and gets an orgasm from the stimulation of the head of the clitoris, then she really may not get an orgasm from the penetration of a man. It's all about neural connections to learn to get a kick out of penetration for the right amount of time. Find new comfortable positions in which a man can have the most intense impact on the G-spot, rabbit vibrators or curved vibrators for the G-spot are also good - they will be able to awaken new receptors.
Continuing the topic of conversations in a couple, as well as anatomy, it should be remembered that all people are completely different and the norms of sex/norms of influence on erogenous zones are quite conditional. So, for example, a man should ask how his girlfriend likes to stimulate the clitoris? Gentle, smooth, circular motions, back and forth, not just finger rubbing. Also, a woman shows interest in her husband when she finds out whether he likes the stimulation of the scrotum, bridle, do you need to hug her tighter or not?
Sex toys
The use of high quality sex toys in sex is the norm. Most sexologists, gynecologists and urologists claim that sex toys have a beneficial effect on the climate in a couple, as well as on health. Sex toys are amazing assistants, they allow you to get the necessary pleasure and give you precious minutes of general pleasure.
Sex toys allow you to shorten the time between orgasms between partners, and you can enjoy a simultaneous orgasm. Plus, sex toys bring such important and necessary variety to a couple. A new sex toy/sex cosmetics/sexy lingerie/sex accessory (handcuffs, mask, whip) give a new breath of air, an opportunity to learn something new about your partner, and also realize your erotic fantasies yourself.
An important reminder: "don't fake an orgasm." This will not lead you or your partner to anything good. It is necessary to take the situation into your own hands and start offering other options. Enjoying sex/masturbation is an inalienable right of every human being, so enjoy it to the fullest!