Not Going Grey Gracefully – Part 1

By Imogenl @ImogenLamport

From brunette to blonde

I’ve been going gray since I was 15 – in fact I carefully packaged up my hair and have kept it for 20 years now.

Still got it all wrapped up for safe keeping

By the age of 22 I remember trying to count the number of gray hairs in my fringe (bangs) and lost count there were so many. That was the point that I started permanently dying my hair to a lovely dark brown.

Over those years, it was something I only needed to do every 6 weeks, but as the years have rolled past, that time between dyes has gotten shorter and shorter til now it was only 2 weeks before I’d start looking like a skunk.  Now every time my roots start showing my kids will tell me to dye my hair as ‘grey is for grannies’ and as much as I sometimes think that I could be one of those women who rock the silver, I’m aware that people still think I’m in my 30s, the minute I go grey, nobody will ever think that again (there’s my vanity talking) so I’m not ready to take that step.

Now I love the idea of aging gracefully, but I don’t think I’m going to be able to do it.  I’ve been trying to figure out what to do with my hair for a while.  Should I just clipper it short down to the roots and let it grow out gray (kind of radical), I decided the answer was no.    So the other day, I made a decision that I wasn’t going to be dying my roots fortnightly (that means every 2 weeks), instead I would try and work with my white roots and work my way to platinum blonde.

Given how many layers of dye are on my hair, this is not a quick and easy process, without turning my hair to jelly or straw and it all breaking off.  So stage one (bottom of the collage pic, I started removing the colour, and then I stripped it slightly more.  Of course this has revealed all the red/yellow tones and pigments that are in keratin and I’ve had a major haircut (top right) to get rid of the ends as trying to strip all that color from them would have killed my hair.

Now I have to wait another week for my hair and scalp to have a little rest from all those nasty chemicals, and then I’ll be (I hope) getting rid of much of the orange tones and going to a more pearl blonde (highlights) and some ash blonde lowlights which will suit my skin-tone and my wardrobe!

The kind of blonde I’m after!

My plan is to go more what I’d call – Helen Mirren blonde.