Nugget: What men want more than a pretty face orteeny waist is to be ADMIRED by their partner. What it means: Many women believe men have an affairwith the 'secretary' because she's hot, young or has some'physical' attribute she lacks. The truth is most men that have affairs are CRAVINGadmiration. At home, many men feel nagged. At the office, they are the 'hero'. If a man doesn't feel admired at home, he becomeseasier prey for any woman that makes him feel respectedand admired. When a woman makes her man feel admired shecloaks him in 'anti-slut' armor because most menwould do just about anyting to NOT to lose heradmiration.