There are patients who are more pain-tolerant, while others have trouble coping with increased disability and pain which affect them physically as well as psychologically. They are also coping with decreased functioning.
A physician needs to be empathetic, genuine and careful not to say anything without due forethought. Maybe the doctor could ask himself:-
- How would I feel if I had a disease that was constantly reducing my ability to do the things I did a few months ago?
- How would I feel if I experienced constant sleeplessness, pain and the inability to leave home on my own?
- How would I feel if I could no longer drive, walk my dog, do my supermarket shopping on my own, or lose the ability to feel comfortable attending a party?