My marriage has been sexless for last 20 years. During that time I’ve been fortunate enough to find three married lovers, but nothing recently despite dating sites. I did search “escorts” but I’ve never paid for sex and can’t contemplate $750 an hour for those I saw on these sites. However, I’ve heard housewives selling sex for money are much cheaper; how do I reach these?
Hire. An. Escort.
You are going to get caught if you keep playing around with amateurs, and unless you’re looking in NYC or at porn actresses, escorts aren’t charging $750/hour. I’m “high end” and I charge $400 for one hour, $1200 for a four-hour dinner date; that’s pretty typical in most sizeable US cities. I wrote an article for Reason a couple of years ago with advice on finding a good pro; I suggest you follow that advice before you get caught. And I guarantee you a divorce will set you back more than a few hundred bucks once or twice a month.
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