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Ronald Rohlheiser, in his book, Sacred Fire, addressed especially to older pursuers of the faith has a short section entitled, "Be Wide in Your Embrace."
Ultimately we must move on to face and accept otherness, strangeness, difference, what is foreign. Our survival depends upon it. We can no longer live just among our own. Sooner or later, given that the planet is both limited and round, we will find it impossible to avoid what is foreign to us. What is strange to us will soon enough be part of our neighborhood, our home, our church, and our perspective on things. Moreover, welcoming what is other and different is in fact, a key biblical challenge... God is defined precisely as "Other", as what is beyond imagination, outside the realm of the familiar. This is what scripture means when it calls God holy. Biblically holy is not primarily a moral quality but an ontological one-namely, otherness and different from us. Thus, biblically, we have the tradition within which revelation from God is understood to come mostly through the stranger, the foreigner, the unexpected, in the unfamiliar, in what is different, in the surprise. For this reason the scriptures insist on the importance of welcoming strangers. (p270)However there is a side benefit of this widening embrace that I had never thought of before until a couple of weeks ago. Rohlheiser goes on to suggest an interesting correlation:
Some of you know I've been working for ages on a book I'm calling, God is Weird. (And when I say "working" what I really mean is I've tossed the idea around, opened a file by that name on my computer and generated a very rough outline and a couple of chapters.) The notion of God's weirdness struck home 17 years ago when a dear friend from childhood died too young. She left a four-day-old infant daughter, a desolated husband, grief stricken siblings and devastated parents. I was floored by God's response to our prayers for healing. I couldn't understand why he wouldn't come barging in and restore health and order and a mother to the tiny orphan. I was beside myself with anguish and I was very angry. The only thing that made any sense in that moment was how obvious it was that God himself made no sense whatsoever. He was, in my mind, completely strange. He was weird.
And he is. He's strange. He's completely foreign to us. He does things differently than we do. Often we shake our heads, completely befuddled. We grieve, we stomp our feet-angry, our worlds upset. We cry out confused to the core.
It's not like he didn't warn us. Scripture is full of references to the Otherness of God. God is Holy and the word Hebrew word "qodesh", holy means "apartness, set-apartness, separateness, sacredness". It also means, "otherness, transcendent and totally other" (patheos.com).
"My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts," says the Lord.
"And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.
For just as the heavens are higher than the earth,
so my ways are higher than your ways
and my thoughts higher than your thoughts." (Isaiah 55:8 NLT)
If we close off our hearts to anything or anyone that's different than our souls will suffer. The unintended consequence is we risk closing our hearts off from God. We think we're protecting ourselves-protecting our children-we build walls, put up fences, grow shrubbery to block out our neighbors. We keep our eyes averted. We look away. We cross the street. We pick up the pace.
Admittedly the temptation exists to protect ourselves from God himself too. I understand that. He seems so unpredictable in his strangeness it often feels super scary to continue to open our hearts to Him. We fear what he might do. We panic at the prospects of where he might push us. He might mess with our personal status quo. It's too terrifying to think about.
But what kind of life do we want? It's a dark death-life if we seal our souls off from living. It's impossible to close off only the things that make us uncomfortable. When we shut down we shut out all of it: the good, the bad, the joy, the sadness, the exhilaration, the risk. We shut out the familiar and the Stranger.
'Whenever you did one of these things to someone overlooked or ignored, that was me-you did it to me.' (Matt 25:40) Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it. (Heb 13:2)In the moment we chose to accept strangers-those previously considered "strange" to us-we're choosing to open ourselves to God's wide mercy and to his wild ride. He meets us in those moments of choice. He sees our fear and he steps in with courage. When we deliberately incline ourselves to the other, we find not only a potential space for friendship and human kindness, we might also find God.