If you had a successful date (with Tips to Make Your Dating More Interesting and Eventful), and probably it was your first date, then you are one of those lucky people who rarely get their objective easily. Anyhow this is not the end and the dating has to proceed further in order to get the logical results.
The immediate course of action after the first successful date depends up on whether you are man or a woman. There will be a natural desire to have another dating session after this one. Who should take the initiative then? Women are generally reluctant to pick up the telephone and make a call to the man. This is because they are made to believe that if they make a call the man will think that she is too eager or too desperate to get entangled in the love affairs. Probably she will be taken as a flirting woman and hence may risk her reputation as a serious and sober woman. [ What All Should You Avoid During a Date]
On the other hand a man is likely to take this initiate and make a call for the next meeting. When should he do it? Should it be done the next morning or some interval is to be made? The dating gurus say that men should also not be in a hurry to go ahead for the next dating. There should be an interval of at least three days after the first dating. This will increase the urge in the woman to further promote the relationship.
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However the lines between the gender divide are diminishing rapidly and now both men and women are equally seen taking initiative. While making a telephonic call to the other person, keep in mind few things. Do not make call when the other person is at workplace. Be normal on the phone and do not show over enthusiasm or gladness on the success of previous dating. You should suffice to say that it was a nice time and you desire that there should be another meeting soon. If you say that the previous dating was fantastic and that you did not have such a good time in the other party, particularly if she is a woman, will take it for granted that a dating means a successful dating. Let the things move in a natural way.
What happens if you are at the receiving end and do not receive a call within couple of days after the first successful dating? You may feel that the other person has not been impressed by you. You may also have a feeling of being rejected. Or you may conceive the idea that the other person, particularly if the other person is a man, is involved in dating with more people. All these feelings are natural and are bound to come. But it is better that you should think on positive lines. It is possible that your partner has been busy and could not call you or he/she is too shy to make a call for the second dating. In such a circumstance there is no harm to take the initiative and make a call yourself. With this you will come to know whether the person is interested in continuing the relationship or not.
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