With progression seeking in, countries are embracing the rainbow culture in an increasing number. Even though the taboo is still attached to several nations (including India), one must confess that people are getting more and more liberal (thanks to the plethora of online and offline campaigns)!
So, here are some destinations (both India and in abroad) where a gay couple may find greater acceptance:
Copenhagen: Copenhagen, the enigmatic city in Denmark, is undoubtedly the friendliest city one can find on the globe as far as the LGBTQ community is concerned. It is best remembered (and revered) by the gay community for being the first country to officially legitimate gay relationships and marriages! Its slew of clubs, bars and pubs are not only meant for the heterosexual couples but also for homosexuals and quite openly so. Something that is really heartening is the fact that the city boasts of a number of gay-only bars, like the highly famous Centralhjornet which is more than fifty years old.
Why to visit: Recognizes gay marriages, scenic, culturally rich, open gay pubs and clubs, Centralhjornet bar, the panoramic City Hall Tower
Toronto: Across the other side of the planet, if you happen to cross the Atlantic, you may sneak in to Canada’s hot and happening city of Toronto. It is considered the most liberal cities in the American continent and certainly has some friendly regulations, bars and clubs to flaunt up its sleeve. The destination that would be a must-see in every gay traveler’s itinerary would be The Village, the fulcrum of culture, entertainment and joie de vivre.
Why to visit: The Village, walks and marches like Pride Week Celebrations, the scenic beauty of course
New Zealand: New Zealand is known for its cosmopolitanism and cultural wealth apart from its glaciers and mountains. It is a sleeping country that doesn’t mind any community and seems to go about its business in a cool and casual way. So, same-sex kiss is something that won’t be frowned upon here. Also, do note the fact that since 2013 its constitution recognizes homosexual marriages. There you go Australia, the arch rival! New Zealand beat you hands down as far as LGBTQ votes go!
Why to visit: Its glaciers, its adventure sports, its romantic milieu and, of course, its progressive laws
Kolkata: India’s ‘City of Joy’ (incidentally, joy is a near-synonym for gay) is one of the more open cities in the country which is still struggling to completely let go of its traditional orthodox views. Full of Bengali people, Kolkata (fondly remembered by many as that eternal Calcutta) has been housing other regional communities like the Marwaris for decades without batting an eyelid. Its cosmopolitanism is something to be lauded. Kolkata, like most other Indian cities, hasn’t been able to totally give up the ‘old’ values where homosexuality is frowned upon, yet it would be correct to state that its benign people are embracing gay-ism faster than other cities. Even as this article is being written, the Rainbow Pride Walk is being organized on one of its premium roads.
Why to visit: A multilingual community, a strong cultural lineage, Howrah Bridge, Tagore’s House (Thakur Bari), romantic places like Prinsep Ghat and Rabindra Sarobar, the all-embracing Park Street (the epicenter of party zone and nightlife)
Mumbai: India’s finance capital where films celebrating gay life are churned out every year is fast turning into a gay-friendly destination. Some old political mongers may still scorn at two boys holding hands but it is right to say that the new generation is flourishing with a more generous mindset. Its amazing culture and landmarks aside, it is the rabble of humanity where one can mix and melt.
Why to visit: A rich history, a developing culture, Gateway of India, Elephanta Island, weekend evenings at Marine Drive