It is correctly said that you cannot change your neighbors. If you happen to get good neighbors it is a blessing but if you are not so lucky then you will have to live with all the odds associated with bad neighbors.
What is good or bad about neighbors is a question of semantics. If you can manage to have good relations with the neighbors they will seem good, otherwise same set of people will become intolerable for you. Here are some useful tips to keep good relations with the neighbors.
Tips on How to Become a Good NeighborKeep in touch frequently
Say 'hello, hi' to your neighbors very often. Wish them all the best as and when you come across them. Remember a breakdown in communication is the commonest cause of getting the relations strained. The more you talk and communicate the better are the chances of having cordial relations.
Exchange cookies with Neighbors
As and when you cook something variety dish do not forget to send it across to your neighbors. This will foster stronger relations amongst you.
Do not throw litter in front of Neighbors' Houses
One of the most irritating activities is to throw your garbage in front of the neighbors' house or gate. This will create very negative impression about your personality and create unnecessary rift with your neighbor. Similarly avoid doing anything that is likely to cause inconvenience to your neighbors. This may include playing your music instruments at louder voice or conducting social gatherings whose nuisance may spill over to your neighbor.
Never become a party in children's fights
Children have their own psychology. They may be playing together and the next moment they may be fighting with each other on trivial matters. If your child is beaten up by the child of your neighbor, never show your anger with neighbor. Just console your own child. You will see that same children will again be playing together but if you pick up fight with neighbor on this issue you are in for long term hostility. Apart from this do not take the issues seriously with your neighbors and develop a sense of tolerance in yourself.
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If your neighbor wants any item of daily use do not refuse. Offer your personal services to them for any repair or maintenance works in their homes. Pay particular attention if anyone in your neighborhood is sick. Apart from showing verbal sympathy, offer your services like hospitalization and medication.
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Have Social Gatherings with Neighbors
Find out some time to have outings and entertainments together with your neighbors. You can have picnics together at some scenic location. Read: What is Social Facilitation.