Thai Cupid is the biggest online dating site in Thailand, in this article I'll provide you with tips on how to use the site and meet normal Thai girls.
What sort of Thai girls use Thai Cupid
You'll find all types of Thai girls on Thai Cupid from hard working Thai girls, university girls who just want to have some fun to the freelancer hookers.
There aren't many Thai men on Thai Cupid and many of the Thai girls on Thai Cupid are here to find a western partner or friend.
Thai girls are broken into five categories on this site:
- Regular girls - these are girls who don't have too much education and work in entry to mid level jobs. They make up a large chuck of the userbase. Their grasp of English is okay and they will often be up for meeting you right away. These girls are pretty casual and up for fun. They are not prostitutes and will not ask for money.
- Career girls - the second type of girls are in higher paying jobs and typically have a university degree. Some will be looking for a serious boyfriend while others are just there to see what happens. These girls will not ask for money or anything like that and also make a large chuck of the database of girls.
- Older women - these are girls over the age of 30 who are either divorced or single, sometimes they may have children. These girls are looking to settle down and ideal if you're over the age of 45. They are very mature in the way they speak and will be upfront with that they want. These girls will not ask you for money
- Money diggers/hooker - these are girls who are looking for a guy to take care of them, take them to fancy places and just treat them all the time. I'd say around 5% of girls on Thai Cupid fit this category. You'll know right away if you're talking to a gold digger because when you decide to make a date she will ask you to take her someone where super fancy, or she will keep talking about his status.
- Ladyboys - yes there are ladyboys on the site, they will all state in their profile if they are a ladyboy, if you're unsure it's okay to ask. I'd say less than 5% of the usebase are ladyboys.
Any Thai girl who uses Thai Cupid is interested in white and Asian guys, all you'll need is a nice picture and a friendly opening line (mention something in their description to show you've read it) and they will reply 90% of the time.
Thai Cupid is nothing like western dating sites, once you sign-up expect to get half a dozen messages after uploading some photos of yourself.
Some girls are that are on the site who are Thai bar girls and will not mention it in their profiles, which can be annoying, but no big deal this is Thailand after all (I would assume <5% of all girls on Thai Cupid are Thai bar girls). If the Thai girl is showing some very revealing pictures and you're not sure, just use this line it works well and you don't offend them either:
Hey, I don't want to sound rude but I have had some bad experience on this website before with girls who ask me for money for sex. I don't think you're this type of girl because you seem very nice and genuine, but I just want to make sure you're not a bar girl before we meet. Sorry for asking, I don't wish to offend.
They are few and far between though. I would say 95% of the Thai girls on Thai cupid are normal decent hard working girls, so don't get put off by the 1%, there will be a small percentage on all Thai dating sites.
Most girls that will want to talk to you are okay in English, fairly nice and not after your money, they just want a good boyfriend (or a friends with benefits kind of thing). Most will work full time jobs or be studying at various universities.
Is it easy to setup a dates?
Yes but times may be weird as Thai girls work a lot.
Whenever my friends come to Thailand, two weeks before I tell them to join Thai Cupid. If you upload a few pictures of yourself clean shaven dressed in a shirt, you will at least 5-10 message per day from Thai girls as soon as you create an account.
Talk to them for a little while then ask them if they would like to meet up for dinner or visit a club or bar when you land.
Malls are also great places for dates as there's lots of things to do and see, and easy for them to find.
Don't go overboard and say things that too sexual in nature too fast, that will put them off, take it slow.
After the date just ask them if they would like to come to your room and watch a movie or have more drinks. Most of them know what to expect and getting a one night stand is fairly common (it's why so many guys come to Thailand).
It doesn't matter what you look like either, you're not so heavily judged on looks. Just be sure to upload a few photos of yourself in a nice t-shirt and pants. Avoid uploading photos with vests if you can help it.
You can create a free account by clicking here.
What features does it have?
Their search feature is awesome, you can refine your search to any city in Thailand, so even if you're on an island or up North, you can refine your search to girls in your area.
You can also target by age, if they have children and exclude ladyboys.
If you don't have Thai friends or a good expat circle it can be very hard to meet normal Thai girls. One of the biggest benefits of Thai Cupid is that you can make friends with Thai girls before you arrive using Thai Cupid .
There's instant messaging and even video calling, so you can make sure the girls actually look like their pictures.
Travelling alone or looking for a girlfriend?
if you're traveling alone in Thailand and want to meet good looking Thai girls, who will show you around and take care of you, then check this site out.
If you use the website to talk to girls and start a few normal conversions (don't send dick pics), I would say you can get laid around 4-8 times with different girls in a 2-3 week period. This is coming from several readers and many friends and personal experience.
Message girls and ask if they would like to be your travel partner and show you the sights, many would love to do it and stay the night too. Your other option will be to visit go go bars and get girls who are only after your money.
If you want a serious relationship, then message career and university girls to find good yourself a good Thai girlfriend. The site is also the number one place to find a long-term partner.
Summary
For single guys of all ages - Thai Cupid is your ticket to heaven. To make the most of this platform I suggest joining a few weeks before you plan to land in Thailand and start interacting with girls.
Even if you tell them you're on a two week holiday they will want to meet you. Most Thai girls don't like Thai guys because they don't treat them with respect (Thai men ranked #1 in the world for cheating) , that's why so many use sites like Thai Cupid.
If you're looking for fun and action in Thailand without wanting to pay for sex, within an hour of joining Thai Cupid you will have 10+ girls messaging wanting to know more about you.
You can create a free account by clicking here.