I recently happened to read a book by JOHN GRAY about the ways for improving the communication between the opposite sex and in getting what we want in the relationship.Only then did i realize that both the men and the women are like the north and the south poles, and it is always better to be what we are.
If we try inculcating the characteristics of the north or the south pole then the nature of repultion takes place.there s science even in maintaining relationships and to lead a smooth life.
For those who are very friendly and start mingling with people as soon as they get intro, it s always better to start off slow.To first know what kind the other person is and react accordingly.If u react in a n overfriendly manner to someone who s into his/her shells it always creats a negative impression on u.And being a slow coach in a group full of party animals, u would be treated like an alien. So react according to the situation and the person whom you are speaking to!!!!