If you are over 50 – feel stressed in job; family reasonably well-settled, perhaps would have pondered on this already ! – and for such people this post may make an interesting read. crisis of existentialism !!
Retirements are normal; We have seen so many in our lives with the passage of time…… it is a process where a person stops employment completely. We are not speaking about anything forced but the natural retirement upon person reaching the prescribed age limit of 58 or 60…. In some ways, it is a happy event that somebody can take rest peacefully and perhaps devote his time and attention to religious or social activity ~ not required to work any longer……not all are fortunate.. retirement is an emotional event for everyone and it is more emotional for the retiree. In most PSU, there was a well established procedure……. ~ the Department would often conduct a ‘Farewell party’ – presided by the Head of the Organisation / Head of that particular Department / or a Senior Executive of the Organisation. People will speak of all the good characteristics that the individual displayed in their service; followed by an emotional speech of acceptance by the retiring employee. He for sure will be given gifts [personal and official – most importantly the retrial benefits], will be garlanded [mostly garland made of sandalwood], given fruits [apple] and dropped at home in office conveyance with some colleagues accompanying him / her back home. [there of course is the cardinal rule that the retired employee better not go to the office for he may never get that respect again !!]
Even Pope retires; but in India where retirement is compulsory for all office goers, there is none for politicians…. In the 9th Lok Sabha elections, there was this gentleman who at the ripe age of 89 was contesting the elections and actually won by a handsome margin too…. That was ‘Mr NG Ranga’. My mind goes back to an ODI at Faridabad in Oct 17, 1994, where I felt my favorite national Hero was insulted by the Captain.
To millions of his followers, Mahendra Singh Dhoni is a phenomenon, a great thing to happen for Indian cricket.Yet at this age, often his future becomes fodder for speculation.There is so much after a small incident of his seeking the match ball at the end of the lost third ODI against England. The 37-year-old wicketkeeper-batsman was seen seeking the ball from the umpires as players left the ground after India lost by eight wickets on Tuesday to go down 1-2 in the series.
"Is Dhoni retiring?" was the talking point as all and sundry ..Dhoni asked for the ball from field umpires Bruce Oxenfordand Michael Gough (England) at Leeds ~ and immediately Twitter went abuzz rumouring that to be an act of taking a relice and that he may not be present again in an ODI .. .. how sad !! England put up a strong all-round show to thump Team India by eight wickets in the series-deciding third and final ODI . The series loss marks this Indian team's first bilateral series defeat under Virat Kohli. But more than the defeat, former Indian captain Mahendra Singh Dhoni taking the match ball from the umpires had the fans worried. India coach Ravi Shastri dismissed the rumours. "MS wanted to show the ball to Bharat Arun. He wanted to show him the wear and tear the ball had endured, to get a general idea of what the conditions were like." "But right now, all this clamour is nonsense. He just wanted to show the ball to Arun to just have a look at it after close to 45 overs had been bowled," Shastri told Times of India. MSD sprung a surprise in 2014, downunder when he retired mid-way during the series at Australia afterthe drawn Test against Australia in Melbourne. Dhoni was batting on 24 when the Test was called off early at the MCG - four overs were left and India had four wickets in hand - and he made no mention of his retirement during the customary captain's press conference at the end of the match. The announcement was made via a BCCI press release shortly after and it cited "the strain of playing all formats" as the reason.He certainly has a lot of left as revealed by his wicketkeeping performance in this tour, the way he has taken catches and effected stumpings – a class of his own.