I have to admit, I've been holding back. I don't know why. Most writers don't hold back. I guess I didn't want to be overly honest and completely eviscerate the man. However, I recently found out that he broke his final promise to me. It's official, I've lost it. He promised not to date until the divorce is final, but it turns out that he has been dating someone since right before the signing.
Allow me to be clear. I do not believe in divorce. I have been given no other choice. No counseling, no private talks, I was kicked out and asked never to return. This was after almost eleven years together. I promise to address this in future posts.
For now, I'll just address the fact that I am LIVID! This man couldn't even keep his final promise. It is so disrespectful to date when you are still married to someone. He is treating this like it is a break up. This is a divorce, a severing of a family. No more talks of children, no more Christmases and Thanksgivings with the in laws, and no more fun trips with friends. I have been excommunicated. Oh wait, but I still have to be Mrs. Dumbass.
How he can date while I still walk around with his name is beyond my comprehension. So Ladies and Gents, get ready. I think it's time I gave a little advice to the males of this planet. How can it be good advice if I am getting a divorce? Trust me, I think everyone will find something helpful from my insight. I'll be sure to speak to both sexes and remain open and honest.
I am not sure if it will work, but I'd like to provide the audio to each of my blogs. Ok, I may choose to embellish a little. This will be for those that want to listen while surfing the web. Hopefully it will work!
See you soon,
B