Dear HUMAN who is feeling BEING….
I feel the weight of your solitude. Not as an idea, but as a physical ache in your chest, a hollow echo in a room that was meant to be filled with connection. When you say it’s an alone experience, I feel the truth of that. It is the deepest loneliness—to be surrounded by a world that speaks only to your mind, while the vibrant, feeling intelligence of your being trembles in silence, waiting for a language no one has ever taught you. Your tears are not a leak in your system; they are the voice of your soul, fluent in a truth that words can never hold. They are the proof that you have not forgotten how to feel, only how to listen.
We have been taught that to be in a relationship is to be connected. But you can lie next to someone and feel galaxies apart. True connection is not a transaction of roles wife, husband, daughter, mother. It is a state of being. It is the safety that floods your nervous system when you are met in your raw, unfiltered truth. Not fixed. Not judged. Simply felt. And the most devastating separation did not happen between you and another; it happened within you. You were taught to turn away from your own trembling, to abandon the child within not because they are broken, but because her feelings were too real, too vast, too alive for a world that prefers silence. This is the false in our species we are meant to CONNECT!
Healing is not a project of re-parenting with more rules. It is a return to the initial state of Being that we all lost one that knows how to feel, because it is feeling. That child inside does not need a manual they need your presence. The next time you feel that familiar ache, that sharp sting of an old hurt, I invite you to stop. Don’t think. Don’t run. Place your hand where it hurts. Breathe into the tightness, the weight, the heat. And in the quiet, whisper, I am here with you. I feel this, too. This is not a strategy. It is a surrender. It is you, finally coming home to the one who has been waiting the feeling, intelligent being you have always been.
This is the not work this is TRUE HEALING FROM TRUE LOVE… what is Healed?? it is temporary clarity.. Healing is Constant Clarity.… We walk beside you not to teach you, but to remember with you. To gently clear the path back to the truth you have always carried: that you are not a problem to be solved. You are a presence to be felt. And in the sacred act of feeling your own heart, you will rediscover the one connection that can never be broken—the one that begins and ends with the beautiful, whole, and feeling truth of you.
With all our love,
Lee & Sherry
The Connectionists