My daughter is a showjumper. She recently competed in a major event at an international venue. She was up against a huge field of Olympic riders on high-class horses bred specifically for the sport. It was a major step up for her. There was no shortage of stress ahead of the day.
Sports psychologist, Gareth Mole, defines mental toughness as not being distracted by the things over which you have no absolute control. Top performers, he says, focus on the things they can guarantee and leave aside the things that, at best, they can only influence.
It’s no surprise that this relieves stress. Why waste mental and nervous energy on things you can’t do anything about when you could be applying that energy to where you can make a difference? The former generates stress; the latter builds confidence.
The distinction between the two has clear parallels for prioritizing business effort.
Your results, for one. You can do the best you can, but you can’t control them. On the day, the bounce of the ball might just favor someone else. Ditto for any aspect of the past or the future. Nor do you have control over other people, the environment, accidents, genetics or equipment.
You can influence your business results but you can’t guarantee them. The past and the future are out of your hands. You can train and manage your people but you can’t guarantee their performance. The market environment is not decided by you. Despite your risk management, accidents will always happen. The resources you have are exactly that and there is no guarantee your equipment or processes will not
So what does that leave us? Mole’s antidotes apply to business as much as sport, or life for that matter.
My daughter’s demeanor on the day wasn’t entirely stress-free but using the ideas above, her energy was focused on what she could control. For the record, she didn’t win. Her performance, however, was excellent.