Males enjoy being dominant and masculine.
I really think that most men enjoy this. I have known some guys who were not very masculine. They even admitted it. I saw nothing in particular wrong with this, but to guys like that, I am sort of a hypermasculine machista. And when I hung around with these guys, often they would start to mirror my mindset and get back into their own masculine role. It wasn’t so much that they were not masculine. Instead it was that their masculine nature was hidden or suppressed for some reason.
When you bring this out of a man who has repressed it, he often seems very happy in his new masculine role. I have noticed that he often starts acting better too.
I have known men who cried all the time, had horrendous anxiety issues, seemed to have all sorts of psychosomatic stuff going on, had a lot of strange bitter anger and rage, were very defensive about their psychopathology, did not want to change, and were used as doormats by manipulative people. They were holed up at home, and played video games and watched weird anime stuff all day. They were also often into feminism and went on a lot about rape culture and men treating women bad. In other words, they were manginas – great big gigantic pussies.
I encouraged them to start acting more masculine, and the psychosomatic stuff died down, the anxiety attenuated, and they got out of abusive friendships. The bitter rage went away, and that defensive anger and refusal to change vanished. They openly admitted their faults and developed a sort of reflective, rational and philosophical “old man wisdom.” In a number of cases they met a woman soon after. These were guys who hardly dated before. They often moved in with the woman and started having lots of great sex with her.
I noticed that their behavior changed, and they were into more guy things, and you could have more of a typical guy conversation with them, whereas before they would often get offended or angry at typical guy mindsets. The feminism seemed to die back and a sort of typical “male irreverent piggishness” and defiant “fuck the world” attitude emerged. They retreated a lot less into video games and anime worlds.
Sure they would fall apart now and again, but they seemed to put themselves together pretty quickly.
I really think that even wimpy, feminine or mangina type males have a real man deep down inside just dying to break out. Instead of putting these guys down, we should encourage them to release the man tiger from his case and let their man flag fly.
For one thing, they seem to be very happy, satisfied and fulfilled in this role, and when they act more masculine, their behavior becomes more adaptive and a lot of their psychopathology dies down. They become more rational and competent.
Act masculine, guys! It feels good!
Let your man flag fly!