Sam writes:
Homosexual anal sex is just gross.
Is heterosexual anal sex gross too? If not, what’s the difference. Honestly there is not a whole lot of difference between heterosexual anal sex and homosexual anal sex from a strict anatomical perspective.
Well you get turned on to whatever you are wired up to get turned on to. Males are turned on by females.
I honestly doubt if we are turned on naturally by hairy, funny looking vaginas that look like giant mollusks. It’s just that you get aroused by females and, in the process or that you more or less learn to get turned on by females’ genitals and other things. A lot of boys initially find women’s genitals to be disgusting. No doubt they feel the same way about female anuses. As you move on through life, you interact sexually more and more with female genitals, ear canals, tongues and who knows what else and pretty soon you are getting turned on by all sorts of body parts via learning theory. I have heard of a lot of men who are turned on by female anuses. I doubt if that is wired up.
A lot of gay men say they find women’s genitals to be absolutely disgusting and repulsive. Quite a few of them also say that they hate women’s breasts. Gay men often say women’s breasts are disgusting. “They look like cows!” is a frequent comment. Gay men also say that they find women flabby and fatty, and they dislike this. Female are rather flabby and fatty, as they have a lot of body fat, but heterosexual males like this.
I doubt if gay men got wired up to be disgusted by female body parts. They probably just never developed an attraction to them via learning theory, so disgust may be a natural reaction. Or perhaps they learned to be repulsed or trained themselves to be repulsed by female bodies.
Lesbians often say that they find male genitals disgusting. “Ew the cock. Stay away – ew!” They also dislike men’s balls, saying they are hairy and disgusting looking. I doubt if straight women are born being attracted to hairy balls. They are not the most aesthetic objects around you know. This must be a learned attraction.
If you get wired up gay, you just find guys attractive.
From there I suppose you learn to like cock and anuses too by learning theory because these are the pleasure centers of the object that turns you on. The more you engage with other men’s penises, anuses and whatnot the more you learn to get aroused by these objects.
You can train yourself to be turned on or off to just about anything, and that’s exactly what humans do.