This is a regular feature on this site because I have an article called How Can You Tell If a Man Is Gay or Not? that gets a tremendous number of hits. It also gets a lot of confused women posting asking if their boyfriends or husbands are gay. It also gets quite a few gay men who are wondering if some guy they like is gay or not. I am willing to help both parties. I will help the women try to figure out if their lovers are gay, and what the heck, I will even help the gay guys get laid! Can you believe people call me a homophobe? A homophobe who helps gay guys get laid? How does that make sense?
Rebecca writes:
My husband wont come out and say it but i caught him fucking a man before… he still likes to fuck me but is more into my asshole then anything … does this mean he is still fucking men
Hang on just one second now honey. You caught this guy fucking another man once, and he won’t fess up to it? What was he doing with that guy then? Playing tiddlywinks? This is ridiculous. If you caught him screwing another guy, that’s what he was doing. I doubt if you hallucinated it.
I hate to say it, but this man may well be gay. It is well known that married gay men don’t particularly like to have sex with their wives, but when they do have sex with them, they very much prefer doggy from behind. This way perhaps they do not have to look at the wife’s face and they can pretend they are with a guy. A lot of them can do it if they pretend the woman is a man. That is how many gay men are able to have sex with women, assuming they do it at all.
It is also well-known that gay married men often prefer anal sex with their wives over vaginal sex for obvious reasons.
Now there are also straight men who prefer anal sex with women over vaginal sex. Although a lot of people say these men are gay, many of them are not the slightest bit gay, they just prefer the anus over the vagina. This has always stricken me as totally bizarre.
You guys got something against pussy?
In answer to the woman’s question, I have a pretty strong feeling that her husband leans gay. That means he would probably be between 0-100 and 40-60 on the scale below. Actually, due to his behavior, I think he is on the low end because higher end gay leaners like 30-70’s and 40-60’s are actually bisexual and do not have to go to such lengths to manage sex with a woman.
100-0: Maximum heterosexual, minimum homosexual
90-10: Maximum heterosexual, incidental homosexual
80-20: Maximum heterosexual, significant homosexual
70-30: Maximum heterosexual, strong homosexual
60-40: Maximum heterosexual, very strong strong homosexual
50-50: Maximum heterosexual, maximal homosexual
40-60: Maximum homosexual, very strong heterosexual
30-70: Maximum homosexual, strong heterosexual
20-80: Maximum homosexual, significant heterosexual
10-90: Maximum homosexual, incidental heterosexual
0-100: Maximum homosexual, minimal heterosexual