How Do You Know What Sides There Are To You

Speak about constructive argument or mature disagreement. Sometimes, with emotions on the high it's hard to remember to address the action and not the person.
Personal attacks are really unsavoury.
Now, haven't we all displayed an unsavoury side to us at some point.
Speaking of side........
Do I have a #Boho side? I'm not so sure. hmmm. But, I'm taking baby steps with this necklace and Boho cut white lace shirt to see if I have that side to me.