Hollis,
I do hope that you have taken the criticism to heart, but I must agree with Candy Kisseih-Akomfrah and Max Kofi, that what you have written here does not seem to reflect a real understanding of why people were upset with your post.
As a fellow oburuni, the one piece of advice I would try to give you is to remember that Ghanaians are also listening to you and reading what you write. Writing as if they are not is inherently insulting. I say this not to insult, but to try and make you aware, you have been living in Ghana for some time, but you write as if you were oburuni kokoo.