Today William turned four. His birthday is actually this coming week, but I'm not a stickler about doing things on their exact dates if other dates are more convenient. We've had several Christmases on a day other than December 25, and everyone was just as festive. Brandon has a busy schedule this coming week, so celebrating on a weekend made more sense this year. Plus, William isn't that aware of what dates are. And also, who would argue with having their birthday early?
For his birthday activity, we went to a local trampoline park. We hadn't been in maybe a year (definitely not since March), so Elizabeth had a whole new world to discover and was beyond excited to have an entire room full of trampolines to crawl on. I had to laugh as I watched her crawl from trampoline to trampoline, stopping to sit and bounce on every single one.
I don't usually bounce with the children, but had to watch Elizabeth this time, so Kathleen and Sophia cajoled me into showing them my trampoline flipping ability. It's been a long time since I was young and (much more) reckless, and although I pulled off the flip, it was a lot scarier than flips used to be. William took advantage of my presence and made sure that I spent a lot of time jumping with him. Which was fair, as it was his birthday Saturday.
The fun continued with lunch at a restaurant (also not done in over a year) and William's choice of movie for the evening.
Today we had his birthday meal of choice, spaghetti. I have never made spaghetti in my entire life, so when he started asking for it, I couldn't figure out where he had even heard of it, much less eaten it. Then I remembered that his current favorite book is Spaghetti With a Chance of Meatballs (because who doesn't love a book about food??), but I still couldn't figure out where he had eaten it, until I recalled his play dates at a friend's house. I asked my friend if they had ever eaten spaghetti for lunch, and she said that yes, but only once. But for William, I guess once was all it took.
For dessert he had chocolate cake with chocolate frosting. When I brought up cakes, he first requested a red car cake, which got shot down. I'm not a creative cake maker, so I gave him the option of white cake with brown frosting or brown cake with white frosting. He opted for brown cake with brown frosting, choosing the best of both worlds.
One of the best parts of little kid birthdays is how easy they are to please. For his present, I sent Sophia down to the local grocery store, where she picked out a set of three little cars for him. She and Eleanor (the only currently solvent siblings) also bought him a set of little cars, and he was wildly happy when he opened his present. My mom had asked for suggestions for a grandma present, and I told her not to worry because: 1. He's only four and doesn't need much more than a simple present, and 2. We're going to be getting rid of lots of toys in a few months anyway, so why buy more toys now?
So for William, it was a perfect birthday. He got to make all the choices, blow out the candles, have cake, and add more cars to his collection. I think that we could all learn a lesson from the happiness of four year-olds. Happy Birthday, William!