October 11th, 2015 marks the 27th annual National Coming Out Day! This day celebrates those who have come out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer and allies. October 11th was chosen as the official day because it also the anniversary of the National March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian rights. Check out the campaign video for this year’s coming out day:
So, why is coming out so important? Why is it necessary to make your stance known or to let others know your true feelings? It is important for a variety of reasons, but one reason that resonates with me is visibility. Growing up in a Catholic household I knew very little about homosexuality or even just sexuality in general. It wasn’t until I got much older that I started critically thinking about the struggles of my LGBTQ friends and of my struggles with finding a sexual identity. Stories give visibility to these struggles and it is thanks to this day that we get a chance to highlight the importance of coming out stories. It is stories that helped me, and so many others have the courage to come out as LGBTQ or as an ally. It is stories that give voices to the millions of teens and young adults struggling with hiding such a big part of their identities and it is stories that can change a person’s mindset or at least advocate acceptance. Now that we have covered the importance of visibility and the power of stories, lets dive it to some LGBTQ novels that center on coming out.
One of the major themes in LGBTQ is often coming out and the struggles that happen with coming out. While the LGBTQ genre is relatively new, it has gotten major steam in the past few years. But what exactly makes a good YA coming out novel? I read an article a couple years ago that highlighted some of the aspects that a good coming out novel and one of the things that the writer mentioned was “A good coming out novel is about more than just coming out.” I agree, the best LGBTQ novels I have read do a good job of interweaving the main narrative and the coming out aspect. At the same time, these novels have the power to educate and a good coming out novel does just that. It educates the reader without alienating them and allows them to emotionally connect even if the reader may not be going through the same issues that the protagonist is facing. So, what are some good YA coming out novels? Glad you asked! Here are some of my favorites:
Annie on My Mind by Nancy Garden’s is a great story about two young girls that fall in love. What I liked most about this story is that their love begins like a friendship, which I am a total sucker for. The protagonist Liza meets Annie one day while she is on suspension. The two bond and soon their friendship begins to grow into something more. Liza has never thought that she may be gay, but she just can’t seem to get Annie out of her head. When Liza and Annie finally do take their relationship to the next level they realize that just because they are happy doesn’t mean everyone else is. This is a great novel for people just getting into the genre.
Hero by Perry Moore is a unique coming out novel because it deals with….wait for it….superheroes!!! I personally freaked out when I found out catwoman was bisexual. There are not many LGBTQ novels that stray from realistic fiction so if you are one of those people who love superpowers, supernatural or things of that nature I recommend this book for you. The story centers on the main character Thom, who is the son of a disgraced superhero. Thom has many secrets such as that he has developed superpowers, he is a member of an elite superhero team and the biggest secret of all: He’s gay. His father does not approve of homosexuality, so Thom decides to keep that a secret but is his dad anger really worth lying to himself?
For some reviews of some of the books I recommended and some more recommendations check out the video below.There are many other LGBTQ books and coming out novels, but we still have a way to go. While there are more novels than ever covering lesbian and gay characters, there is still a lack of transgender and bisexual characters that I hope will be resolved with time. Do you have any favorite coming out novels? Stories? Share your comments below and happy national coming out day!