While on one hand this is a story of exploitation, this is also a story of hope, and the strength of a young woman. I am choosing not too say too much about this memoir, not because I do not have much to say, but because it is hard for me to do so without giving too much away. I do want to say though that some stories need to be told and shared in order to raise more awareness about the issue of child trafficking, the use of young girls in many homes as domestic workers, and also the many forms of abuse trafficked children face - and this is one such story.
At the African Book Festival, which Tina Okpara attended, there was a very emotional Q&A that followed after the book reading. Many things she said struck me - still having to bear the Okpara surname was one of them, but the other was her saying that she was "lucky [it] happened in Europe", because if all that she experienced happened in Nigeria, she "would be the one going to prison". The Okpara's were big people, and in Nigeria their wealth and big man status would have probably exempted them from their crimes, thankfully this wasn't the case in France for Tina. I thank Tina Okpara for being brave enough to share her story and I only hope that with time no young girl (or boy) experiences what she has experienced. All that's left for me to say is if you are able to, do grab a copy, read it, and share it.